1, four bride price gifts: meat (2 ribs), 2 fish, 4 green onions, 4 vermicelli (also changed, and: meat (2 kg); Noodles (even number); Brown sugar (even number); Candy biscuits and the like).
Cover the big well behind the new building with red paper.
3. The bride-to-be wears guest flowers, and the bride and groom corsage and wedding corsage are not worn for the time being.
4. The bride and groom should have even numbers (generally 8 people, 10, 12).
5. The total number of wedding motorcades (except video cars) should be even (generally 6,8,10 ~ ~).
II. Details of the reception team:
1. Usually in Hefei, the man comes to pick up the bride in the afternoon (note: of course, there is also a reception in the morning and a banquet at noon, mainly because some relatives and friends come from afar so that they can return in the afternoon if they don't want to spend the night).
2. Leave after lunch (it is best to take half an hour, 1: 30, 2: 30, which means to find a partner. In addition: In fact, there are many 8' s in Hefei, 1: 18, 2: 08 and so on.
3. The motorcade doesn't stipulate how many cars there are. Generally, it is an even number divided by the camera car. It should be noted that the first car is a camera car (it is best to arrange a friend of the groom on the car. When the team arrives at the bride's door, this person should go down in advance to set off firecrackers to welcome the team. )
4.2 the car is the groom's car (the bride and groom's car) (note: how to get the following explanation when you come back. Now let's talk about how to bring it when we go. Generally, the groom sits in the back alone, and the best man serves as the co-pilot. Of course, there are also grooms who serve as co-drivers. However, if the wedding camera is not easy to shoot in that way, the driver will enter the camera. In a few cases, the groom drives his own car, but there will be no such problem. )
5.3 The car is the best man's car (the car for the best man and the bridesmaid). When the groom arrives at the bride's house, the best man should get off the bus first and open the door for the groom. Note: You can also take the co-pilot.
6. The money at the door should be ready. Generally, at least 20 to 30 small coins (including 1 yuan, 2 yuan, 5 yuan, 10 yuan and 20 yuan ~ ~) should be prepared, and several large coins should be prepared (the specific number depends on the number of relatives). Note: the number of red envelopes depends on the number of people, so prepare more.
7. The local custom is to set off firecrackers. Starting from the man's house (note: it is a big gun) and arriving at the woman's house, firecrackers should be set off in advance (as mentioned above, the person sitting in the first car should come down early to set off firecrackers). )
8. With regard to the number of cannons, my suggestion is that cannons (above 5,000) should be hung six times, but in fact they should be hung five times as a backup. If it is local to Hefei, the group meal should be added at night. Small cannon: 4-6 hanging, formerly called cosmetic cannon, you know where it is used. If you are a friend's car driver, you will usually give cigarettes and have a special belt. Well, some children who want to see their parents off should give red envelopes, especially those who carry buckets for grandparents and grandchildren. The custom about what to bring to parents' home is very complicated, such as cock, hen, fish, meat, wine, cigarettes and so on. Now, some new couples have simplified their marriage.
Third, after arriving at the bride's house.
Step 1: Knock on the door.
The groom knocks at the door and calls his parents to open the door. The bride's family can be a little embarrassed in the house, and it shouldn't be too long. )
Knock on that woman's door. It is customary not to open the door at once, someone will obstruct it. At this time, you can put the money in the door, first the small one, and finally the big ones to open the door. It should be noted that some brides have more than one door. In addition to the gate, the bride's room also has doors, and some brides even have several doors. Don't stuff all the money in the doors at once. Please set off a short firecracker (door cannon) of 100~200 every once in a while during the Mense Gate. Note: If there are 500 guns, buy 4-6 guns.
Step 2: Recognize relatives.
The bride's parents stood at the door to meet the man's relatives, and the groom introduced them to his parents-in-law. After shaking hands, the two sides went into the house and sat down. The bride's parents and relatives treated the man's relatives to something to eat.
Step 3: propose marriage
The groom got down on one knee and proposed to the bride, saying a few romantic words that could impress her. The bride can embarrass the groom, but not for too long. Open the door and enter the woman's house. Then you'll be a little polite. Attention: bring flowers, wear shoes and so on. It is not recommended to wear a ring, if you want to have a ring at the wedding ceremony.
Step 4: Put a corsage on each other.
The bride and groom wear corsage to each other, and the groom wears corsage to his parents-in-law and takes a group photo as a souvenir.
Step 5: The groom changes his mouth.
The bride's parents sit down and the bride and groom stand facing their parents. The groom officially changed his mind and called his parents and bowed three times, that is, he worshipped her parents and offered them tea. Parents will reward the groom with money (one for each parent, 10 10 yuan, representing a thousand good sons-in-law), and parents will say a few words of encouragement, entrustment and blessing to the bride and groom in their future life. The groom will promise his parents-in-law to treat the bride well and honor both sides. Note: If you are offering tea, you should give a red envelope, generally 100 1 yuan, and a few 1000 1 means one in a million. Say something to thank them for raising a good wife for you.
Step 6: The bride goes out.
1. The bride is carried by her uncle, brother or younger brother and other relatives. Note: The bride's feet should not touch the ground during this process.
2. After that, the relatives of both parties get on the bus, the relatives of the bride's family get on the bus first, and the relatives of the man get on the bus later. Empty cars are not allowed. Bride, bride and co-pilot are bridesmaids. The second car is the groom's parents and the co-pilot is the best man. The third car is the bride's parents.
set off fireworks
Fireworks should be set off when the wedding car leaves the bride's house, and the wedding motorcade will hold a meeting at the groom's house.
Step 8: The bride enters the wedding room.
1, set off firecrackers when you get off. This is prepared by the left-behind people in the new house. When the car arrives at the gate of the community, you leave with a phone call.
Then I will take the bride to your new home. The groom took the bride out of the car and took her to the new house. (Note: There is also a tradition that some new women insist on going out hand in hand with the groom, which is also generous. The former method is more traditional. )
3, of course, take the maid of honor and go with the woman's family. Note: find a woman's home to arrange it. Don't bring too many people. It's impolite. Firecrackers should also be set off at this time. The route cannot be repeated, and it is a circular or splayed route.
Step 9: The bride changes her mouth.
When the groom's parents sit down, the bride and groom stand facing their parents. The bride officially changed her name to call her parents, bowed three times, offered tea to the man's parents, and the parents also rewarded the bride for changing her name. (Note: When some new couples get married, the bride and groom will change their mouths together at the banquet. )
Step 10: The wedding is over.