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How to treat middle-aged Henan marrying a mentally retarded wife and having children?
I don't know where to start, it is a common problem that it is difficult to marry a wife. It is conservatively estimated that the number of bachelors in China has exceeded 30 million, which is undoubtedly a frightening figure. Although most of the male compatriots fell here because of their poor economic strength, this figure is still somewhat unexpected. In order to get a wife, many people lower the standard of choosing a spouse, and it is not unusual for unmarried young men to marry mistresses. Most people get married just to have a complete family, but some people get married just to carry on the family line.

1. A 55-year-old middle-aged man in Henan marries a 20-year-old girl with mental retardation.

This is the case with Mr. Zhang from Gaodian Town, Biyang County, Zhumadian City, Henan Province. Recently, a video of "Henan underage mentally retarded girl marries middle-aged man" has spread all over the Internet. The hero in the video is Mr. Zhang, 55. It is understood that Mr. Zhang has been unable to get married because of his poor family. Although there was no problem of sky-high bride price 30 years ago, Mr. Zhang's family was really poor.

2. In order to carry on the family line

The thing is so amazing. The matchmaker introduced Mr. Zhang to an unmarried girl who was only 20 years old, but the girl was mentally retarded and couldn't even take care of herself. But for Mr. Zhang, these are not problems. He said there was no time to wait, and he urgently needed to inherit the incense for his family, vowing to be good to girls.

3. Don't even ask for a bride price

In this way, without even seeing the girl's face, Mr. Zhang decided to marry the girl's parents. Under the witness of the girl's parents, Mr. Zhang held a wedding in accordance with local customs and set three tables of wine. The girl's parents are extremely satisfied with this marriage: "The son-in-law is honest and kind, and we don't even want a bride price, as long as he is kind to his daughter." On the wedding day, the girl cried all the time and was at a loss in the face of this "husband", but the girl's parents said that she was very happy when she got married and someone took care of her.

This strange "wedding" caused an uproar on the Internet. Some netizens pointed out that the mentally retarded girl has no capacity for civil conduct. This is an arranged marriage, which goes against the girl's wishes. She didn't even say "I do". Theoretically, this situation does violate the marriage law, but in practice, this choice may also be good for the girl, who has a husband and a new dependence.

4. Is this a pot toss?

However, when parents get old, the girl's ownership will become a problem again. Who will take care of her like her parents? Friends and relatives? Of course, some people doubt that parents will marry their 20-year-old daughter to their 35-year-old husband. This "son-in-law" is about the same age as her parents-in-law, even bigger than her parents-in-law. If you say something inappropriate, the son-in-law may walk in front of them. Then who will take care of this girl?

At that time, no one knows whether parents will shirk their responsibilities by "splashing water on married daughters". I hope there will be no tragedy. I hope everyone can be happy and live up to this life.