If you have such feelings and thoughts now, I suggest you put your marriage aside and wait and see.

Because you have such a heart now, this heart will definitely be the reason for quarreling every day in your later life. Imagine, if you can't accept the pressure of monthly repayment and the resulting quarrel, then you still don't recommend getting married.

Everyone has his own pursuit, and it is not too much to pursue her husband's family to help you, that is, to see if both sides agree.

Now it seems that you have a different view. Maybe he is not the kind of person you are looking for.

It may be a good choice to get together and have a walk.