Girls need a "matchmaker" to communicate with boys. First of all, the man's family should let the matchmaker go to the woman's house to "meet the virtuous Si Qi", which is similar to the blind date of the Han nationality. If satisfied, the boy will formally propose to the girl. If the woman agrees, the man's family will give her the "four pillars". Four pillars are written on a piece of paper with names and stars (date of birth), and then the woman "vaults" with the four pillars of the girl.
The so-called "vault" refers to whether the male and female zodiac signs are consistent but not consistent. If the zodiac signs of two people coincide, the woman will inform the man's family through the matchmaker that their "coffers" are relative, and the man can "choose a date" to determine the wedding date and send a bride price to the woman's family, usually "green satin" and "red satin". On the wedding day, the groom must be personally escorted by the elders to get married, enter the woman's house at the specified time, and present a pair of woodcut geese, which is a metaphor for flying with me like geese and never parting.
Later, a "ceremony" was held, in which the woman placed two tables in the center of the main room in the east-west direction, relaxing bamboo in the middle, and the pine and bamboo were covered with blue and red lines; There are wooden geese and tables on both sides of the table. Under the guidance of the ceremony, the western groom toasted the opposite bride, and the bride thanked him.
Then, the groom went into the room to accept the "big table" prepared by the woman for him, on which food such as fish, fruit, cakes and sweets were placed. When receiving the "big table", the groom should sit still, be unsmiling, and say some polite words to his parents and guests to avoid rudeness. After this procedure, the groom can ride on the sedan chair and marry the bride. Sixty-year golden wedding warms old dreams
Koreans also have a special kind of wedding, called "homecoming wedding". If a couple is still alive after their 60th wedding, and their children are not dead, and they have grandchildren, they can have a wedding to go home.
At the wedding, the two must wear the dress they wore when they got married, as grand as the young people. On this day, children and relatives toast and bow down to the old couple in turn according to their seniority and age. Later, two happy old people got on a wedding car and walked around the village for a week. Neighbors, men, women and children came to wish them health and longevity.