I feel that you are not here to ask questions, but to laugh at your husband's family.

There are various customs about wedding red envelopes, so it seems a bit impolite for you to laugh at your in-laws like this.

Every family has different habits and customs. You should also respect other people's habits and customs, not laugh at them.

In your family, the man should try his best to conform to the etiquette of your family, and you should also try your best to conform to the etiquette of his family in his family.

PS: I met a red envelope. Our family is the first time when the man takes the woman back to the man's house. When the woman brings the man back to the woman's house for the first time, the elder of the woman will also give the man a red envelope.

On the wedding day, the newlyweds will not give any other red envelopes to meet their elders. This is normal, and the customs are different.

2. How to send a red envelope on the wedding day?

Before the newcomer sends a red envelope, "three looks" is the most critical!

"Look at the wedding custom". If there is no custom of returning gifts in your place, there is no need to return red envelopes to the guests.

Second, "look at the relationship." Although everyone attended your wedding, the red envelopes you gave the bridesmaids and groomsmen were definitely different from the red envelopes you gave the motorcade drivers. The better the relationship, the more you pay ~

Third, "watch the lucky draw", no matter whether the wedding atmosphere is luxurious or simple, a good lucky draw with a red envelope amount is a must.

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Red envelopes for returning guests.

In most cities in the south, such as Dongguan, guests' return gifts are sent together with wedding invitations, usually ten yuan. According to Lina, a century-old planner, some weddings in Guangzhou will reward 20% of the gift money, while others will reward 10 yuan.

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Rob relatives, block doors, red envelopes, small red envelopes

In Beijing and other cities, 10~20 yuan is the most common place to give red envelopes when robbing relatives and blocking doors. And 1 yuan, 2 yuan, 6 yuan, etc. And the voice of "one-dollar bridesmaid" is particularly high!

1, 2, 2, this small denomination red envelope, usually around 500~ 1000, is suitable for successfully entering the door, picking up the bride and throwing it at the wedding to celebrate.

3. How to give a red envelope on the wedding day?

China traditional wedding should pay more attention to etiquette. There are many steps, without which the woman's family will feel very uncomfortable. First of all, when getting married, the parents of the man should go to the woman's house to discuss, set a date, choose a way and so on. After the wedding ceremony is decided, the bride price will be paid. In addition to local customs, the man will give a red envelope at the bride price, which is the real bride price. According to the previous discussion, how much is it? There is no rule that less wealthy people should give less money. Besides, when the man has a bride price, quilts and the like are all two yuan in it, and cabinets, beds and pillows at home are all two yuan (and sugar, only money is put in the quilt. After the ceremony, the brothers of the woman's family went through everything, which is lucky (girls are not allowed to go through it). After dinner on the wedding day, the man will bring a lot of red envelopes when he gets married at the woman's house. ! Hehehe, got it? The woman's parents will prepare red envelopes for her son-in-law. When leaving the woman's house for the hotel ceremony, the man and mother will prepare a red stool (just stick red paper on it) to let the daughter-in-law get off. At this time, she won't get off until she sees a red envelope. There is generally no rule on how much money. If the man has too many brothers and the woman loves to fight for property, she may not get off the bus. However, this is very rare. After arriving at the hotel, the woman will go to the room to tidy herself up first. At this time, the woman will prepare a red envelope, no matter what it is, at least ten yuan, because there will be an elder to comb her hair (symbolic). There is no need to give red envelopes, and there will be girls in the south who wash their faces with water (symbolic). At the formal ceremony, the man's parents will give her a red envelope. It is singular. This is special. It means whether the bride is a good girl in a thousand or a good daughter-in-law in a thousand. Therefore, it is necessary to add a piece. When we got married, it was 10000 1. Now that the conditions are good, it is usually this number. In rural areas, it is more than 100 1. However, those with rich conditions are one in a hundred. (This eleven thousand is the sum of two parents: one is 5000 and the other is 500 1. Then there is the man's immediate elders (such as grandfather, grandmother, grandmother, grandfather, etc.). These are people's random wishes. Finally, on the wine table, when the woman toasts the man, the man's immediate elders will give him red envelopes (such as aunts and aunts). That is, parents, brothers and sisters and grandparents, grandmothers and grandfathers. Finally, ask the man to prepare an opened red envelope for the woman's brother, because this box is very important. There are clothes your man bought for her at the bride price, and money from both parents. This money is usually given by the woman's family. Double the man's house and lock it. The key should be kept by the woman's brother, and then the man will give the woman's brother a red envelope. ! ! However, traditional western-style weddings are not so complicated. Because western-style weddings are witnessed, in the church, the woman's father gives her daughter to her son-in-law and asks the priest to recite scriptures. Exchange rings, kiss and get a red envelope. Just pay the bride price according to China tradition before marriage. And the whole process should be quiet, because the church is sacred and the wedding is sacred and serious. Only when the priest allows both sides to kiss can there be sound and excitement. The combination of Chinese and western will be lively.