When it comes to love, people always have some changes, more or less.
When a man meets love, he will become serious and timid, cautious, cautious, and then cautious. The obvious sign is restraint.
When a woman meets love, she will become crazy, bold, persistent, persistent and persistent again. As long as the other party doesn't give too much disappointment, she will stick to it, like a moth to a fire.
When you meet true love, everyone changes a little, regardless of gender, but these three feelings often become the most typical growth. First, happiness; Second, motivation; Third, happiness.
In fact, there is not much true love in this world. The more you get along, the easier it is to show your sincerity. When you feel that you are ready to surrender, nine times out of ten you are in love. When you find that the other person has begun to change for you, or even become beneficial to you, it is probably because you are emotional.
Many feelings grow in silence, but spread inadvertently in people. Many details, ignored by people, have become ingrained.
Don't be afraid of any sincere love, and don't question your own heart and madness. Love will always exist. No matter whether you have been hurt or failed by love, don't erase the beauty of love easily. Perhaps it is one of your treasures, which constitutes the happiness of your palm.
When you meet true love, you will bring these three unique feelings to yourself.
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happy
When you really like someone, you will be inexplicably happy when you mention or think of him. In short, that person is the source of happiness.
In fact, happiness can also be manifested in some things, for example, you are often distracted, that is, at a certain moment, somehow, you think of each other, and then you start to meditate, empty, or even have a short memory loss. During this time, you didn't think of each other, you didn't think of yourself, and you may not think of anything. Just because a person appears, you have a state of physical and mental dissociation.
Love a person, why do you feel happy?
In fact, the primitive form of love is hormonal, regardless of gender. When you meet someone who is tempted or admired, you will feel a little excited. At the very least, it should be a deer bump, and the heart slams. This feeling only happens when you meet someone who really loves you, or it is feasible to have a surge in hormones in your body.
Of course, modern medicine is so developed that it is not difficult to produce stimulating hormones, but the people who can make you involuntarily happy are mostly your true feelings.
After being emotional, people will have obvious characteristics of getting better. No matter what happens to you, you are sad or experience some changes, but when you meet the person you like, your mood will turn positive, which is also a standard to measure and examine.
If you don't know whether you like someone or really love someone, then see if you are really happy, especially when you think of that person, you will know.
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motive power
What kind of motivation does it take to love someone? Why is motivation a sign of true love?
Everyone has a sense of shame, in other words, everyone has a desire for dignity and value, and it is impossible to be born with mediocrity. Many people's mediocrity is caused by the day after tomorrow, or it is the blow of people around them, or the self-discipline is poor, or the heart is not strong enough. In short, everyone has almost the same desire to survive and win from birth.
When you love someone, you will yearn for conquest and possession in your heart. How can we achieve overall control? Only excellent, only better, there is a saying: how to solve worries, only excellent!
Instead of obsessing about whether the person you admire loves you equally, learn to be self-sufficient and conquer each other with your best self, or, in more popular terms, attract each other's attention.
The love between the opposite sex refers to the attraction between charms to a greater extent.
Because you fall in love with someone, you have endless energy, such as trying to be thinner, trying to be decent, trying to be more successful in your career, and so on. In fact, in terms of motivation, men and women are different. Women like to tolerate people who please themselves, and men like to do it for those who please themselves.
Because women fall in love with a person, their motivation is gradually transformed into charm and charm, which is more reflected in appearance and temperament.
Because men fall in love with a person, most of their motivation will be reflected in making more money, learning more skills, learning more crafts and so on. In short, he will want to give each other a sense of security and happiness. After all, men have more responsibilities and responsibilities, which is true love.
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happy
When you really love someone, happiness will come naturally.
People always ask, what is happiness? What is happiness?
In fact, happiness is very simple. You don't need a big house or a luxury car feast. You just need to be with the people you love the most, simple life, simple life. That's all.
In The King and the Beggar, there are some lyrics: I hold you tight, richer than the king, how happy I am; I am worse off than a beggar without you.
Look, isn't happiness complicated? No way, true happiness is actually being with the person you love, even if it is only silence, even if it is only quiet, but this is the truest appearance of happiness.
When you really love someone, happiness means that you want to be with the other person for a lifetime, so that you can like the other person now and cherish the white-haired look after many years; We can not only appreciate each other's advantages, but also accept each other's shortcomings, and always see the happiness in them.
In the final analysis, happiness does not come from the number of accessories in life, but from a feeling inside. As long as you feel safe and quiet in the process of loving someone, it is actually a kind of happiness.
Love the right person, and you will feel that you have the whole world; If you love the wrong person, you will feel that the whole world has left you.
Happiness is because one sees the whole world.