100 1 It's just the exchange fee. Of course, this is an extra gift. If you don't want it, even if you want it, you can discuss how much it costs to buy gold jewelry, and you have to pay 20 thousand. If you don't give the man money, the house will be the same for him. I don't know. We all give money to women here. All the money comes from this man. Some give 65438+200,000. This is normal, so it's 20 thousand. I think it's too little. If your family is not short of that money, give it, so as not to hurt your spirit. Give it if you want. Look at your financial ability. If your family is rich, it's not that bad. It's your business to give the bride price and tens of thousands, but I know that the change of the bride price was given on the wedding day. Now it's the change of the bride price, right? You don't have to give 1000 1 yuan at all times.