Picking up ashes is a small joke at the wedding, just to make the guests smile. Prepare clothes, etc. And perform on the stage. On the stage, my father-in-law and daughter-in-law each wear a costume, both of which are red. Father-in-law dressed in the official uniform of the Tang Dynasty and wearing a black official hat with the word "picking up ash" written on it performed. Its origin lies in ancient allusions of adultery between father-in-law and daughter-in-law, which is a manifestation of feudal bad habits and a disrespect for women. However, due to the low moral and cultural level in many places, it is still popular at weddings in Hunan and Jiangsu. Daughter-in-law dresses like an ancient bride, and father-in-law does some actions at the request of the host or guests, such as letting father-in-law run around with his daughter-in-law among the guests. Some daughters-in-law know that it's just a performance for laughing, and it's generous. Some people don't understand the local rules, and they are too ashamed to cry, while the guests laugh at themselves, making the wedding atmosphere more lively.