First, how to collect money and give gifts when you get married without a wedding?

1, thank-you banquet

Not everyone can have a wedding. If there is no ceremony, a simple thank-you banquet can be held. Invite your relatives and friends to have a simple meal together. There is no grand ceremony, but there must be many occasions for toasting. The thank-you banquet is simple and direct, there is not much greeting, and everyone can collect money.

Step 2 travel and get married

There are not a few new people who travel and get married now. When choosing the wedding form, we can consider the mode of traveling marriage. In the process of visiting some tourist cities, buy some good quality gifts for relatives and friends. When gifts are mailed to each other, relatives and friends will also thank the couple with money or wedding gifts.

Second, do friends have to pay if they can't get married and drink?

1. Generally speaking, the money we give to the couple is on the day of the wedding reception. But if the friends around you can't get married and drink, you have to weigh whether to give money or not. If the couple didn't set wine or hold any ceremony, but simply celebrated at home, there is no need to give them money. Obviously, the newcomers don't want to be too high-profile or too human.

In addition, if the new person doesn't serve wine, he will inform you that he is getting married. Or there is no large-scale banquet between couples, but there is a small party between your friends to celebrate their big wedding. In this case, it is better to give some money. Before giving money, you can discuss it privately with other friends to see if the money is appropriate and the gift is more intimate.

Therefore, getting a wedding gift is also a blessing and a kind of heart. If you just collect money and don't invite people to dinner, it will inevitably be a bit unreasonable. Always invite people to dinner or something to show the joy of getting married. At this time, the thank-you banquet is the best choice, because unlike the wedding banquet, there is no huge capital cost, but the food can be as rich as it is. It can also play the role of reunion without complicated arrangement and planning. A little decoration is also very warm, and you don't need too much time, energy and money. It can also play the role of a banquet. If you invite everyone to come, you will also give away some money. It is a very good choice for everyone.

Secondly, if you feel that you don't have many relatives and friends and just want to invite a few close friends to get together, you can do a small-scale party, whether it's a party hall, a KTV singing party or a dinner for just a few people. This is also a way, without large-scale extravagance and waste, but it can also play a role in reunion. Good brothers and girlfriends can also take this opportunity to send you thoughts and blessings.

Finally, if you really do nothing, keep a low profile, in fact, you can forget the money. Bian Xiao felt that there was no good opportunity to collect it, and everyone could not take advantage of it. If you don't care too much, it's actually very simple, so ... forget it ... otherwise it doesn't mean asking others for money one by one, does it? How embarrassing ... isn't it?

Therefore, for newlyweds who travel and get married, if you really want to collect some money to withdraw funds, then the first plan is your best choice, and it is also a kind of respect for relatives and friends around you, and there will be no embarrassing scenes. This is a way to kill two birds with one stone.