Cheng in Jianghu reminds me of the rose in The Little Prince, which is also the image of love, and love is not allowed. Cheng is self-abased and timid in front of a promising young husband. She wants her husband's understanding and more love, but she dare not say it. She can only bury it in her heart and endure it silently.
The rose in The Little Prince is just like Cheng, who doesn't understand love but is melodramatic. Her heart loves, depends on and longs for the little prince. It carefully chooses the opportunity and tries its best to bloom beautiful colors, hoping to get the attention of the little prince, sticking out its weak thorns and hoping to get more care from the little prince. On the surface, he told the little prince that he was afraid of the wind, but in fact he wanted the little prince to visit him often.
Just like Cheng in "Big Rivers", she tattooed her eyebrows for her husband to see, and the result was tacky by her husband. She was afraid that her husband would abandon her, and she lived as carefully as a kannika nimtragol every day, but she didn't get her husband's love, which made him ignore her feelings more and more.
In fact, if you pay attention, you will find that in fact, Song Yunhui has never considered his wife's feelings. Just like having dinner with Liang that night, he asked his wife to take her home when his daughter fell asleep. I don't know how wronged this is for my wife.
As the little prince said, "I didn't know anything at that time. I should have judged from her behavior. She makes my life colorful. " But I am too impulsive and too young to cherish and love her. "Not Song Yunhui? It's just that we don't know whether he loves Cheng or not.
The little prince watered the roses for the last time. When he tried to put the glass cover on the rose cover, the rose stopped him: "You put it aside. Actually, I'm not that melodramatic. I just want your love. "
On the other hand, Cheng's EQ is not as good as "Rose". She can only live with trepidation and humility under her husband's aura. But just like Rose, the little prince who is about to leave, at last, Cheng finally spoke his mind.
We should change our way of life. You should go home from work early and work less overtime. You should respect my thoughts and opinions on family affairs, and don't make your own decisions. However, it's time to go, just like the little prince, and those who didn't stay didn't stay, just Yunhui in Song Like.
Yes, love should not be like this. Rose is not done right, and neither is Cheng. Did Song Yunhui do it right?
In fact, whether it is Cheng or Rose, their hearts are like a mirror, but they are passive and can't control the heart of the "little prince". They have careers, ideals, poems and distant places, but what is the journey?
A husband who only knows how to work overtime and a wife who can't speak two words can talk and laugh with other women. In fact, for Song Yunhui, family is just a responsibility, an obligation, and at most it is just a family. In the original, he was even more miserable. He doesn't like his wife. Song Yunhui, not Cheng, forced her to divorce.
Just like the rose in The Little Prince, Cheng, as a supporting role, can only live under the vassal of the protagonist, and everything has to make way for the protagonist. Suddenly I remembered Shu Ting's poem "To the Oak Tree": If I love you, I will never show off myself with your high branches like climbing Campbell; If I love you, I will never learn from spoony birds and repeat monotonous songs for the shade; I don't want to be your vassal to set off your height. I must be a kapok beside you, standing with you as a tree.
In fact, every successful wife lives very tired, because her husband's image is really bright, and her wife has to live a humble life. A little arbitrary, I hope you can understand!