Go to the other side of the woman, about 20 meters away from her home (depending on the length of the main firecrackers you bring, the distance is determined). Put the whip first, and the woman will hang up when she hears you put the whip. Then I went to the woman's house. When I arrived at the woman's house, I immediately took out the cigarettes in my bag and said that the old and the young, regardless of gender, respected cigarettes one by one. Then the woman's family will arrange for you to have a cup of tea. In some places, the chef will wash your face after drinking tea, usually twice. Of course, the second time, it will be red. Generally around 40 yuan, there are two kinds of packages. It's best to prepare a lot of red envelopes at home, each for 10 yuan and 20 yuan, and two large bags are gifts for moving boxes. If you have an agreement with the woman in advance, you can share the agreed money equally. If there is no agreement, prepare more. After drinking the cake and tea, you will be basically all right. You can play cards with friends and wait for lunch. Of course, at this time, the groom generally does not participate, because it is best to find a new father-in-law and discuss with him about opening the door. The door is open for the cook. It used to be 20-40 yuan. I can entrust my father-in-law with this matter. Then you can go to the bride, as if asking the whole sister to send ribbons to Sina (ribbons: the trouser leg belts used by Sina on the wedding day, and red cloth strips must be brought from the groom's house), and then the whole sister will send some sweets to relatives and friends in Zhou Wei, as if it should be finished in the morning. At this time, you can also talk to your old mother-in-law about what you haven't done yet. After years of marriage, you have forgotten. Of course, if you are free, you can also chat with the bride. Usually the bride is not at home, so she goes to make up. . . When you have lunch, you will definitely sit at the traditional table, but if there are elderly people on the table, you must be polite, but don't be too polite, it will look fake, because which seat will be yours one day. During the dinner, people usually propose a toast to you first. You should pay attention to your judgment today, no matter how much you can drink. Generally, it is enough to hold a cup and put your mouth on it, but each cup should touch your mouth to show your gratitude. At this time, no one will ask you for a drink. Everyone else has finished drinking, remember to return it to others. Don't forget. From the banquet to the fourth course (like fish), at this time, the fish head usually points to one wine order and the fish tail points to another wine order. Remember, don't eat until the position of the fish has changed. Oh, I forgot one thing, that is, there was a plate of carrots at the party (sometimes it was changed into other red ones). Which carrot must be moved first before others can eat it, so after the party. Everyone will ask you to move first. Just be polite. Let's move and let everyone eat which dish. Let's go back to the topic of fish. Wait a while after the fish comes. The cook will come up with a washbasin. Some will cover the fish with a layer of red paper and then wash their faces one by one. Of course, after the second washing, remember to wrap it in a towel and return it to the chef with a red envelope to show your gratitude. Of course, at this time, you can also invite the chef to have a few drinks (see the chef). After washing his face, the chef usually doesn't turn the fish directly, because turning the fish around means that his program is over, and he will go down and look at the red envelope. Some places like to make trouble again. For the first time, red envelopes are generally wrapped around 80 yuan and divided into two packages. If you make trouble around 20 yuan every time in the future, you will be fine. Guannan people call it noisy, noisy and not noisy. If the chef makes a big noise, he can put each red envelope on the table every time he gives it, and press a glass of wine on each corner of the red envelope, so that the chef must drink the wine first if he wants to get the red envelope. The process is complicated and there are differences in different places. It is estimated that these habits have disappeared now and will appear in the countryside. If it's in a restaurant, oh, no trouble, nothing, just finish eating and drinking. After lunch, take a rest, and at about 2 o'clock at the latest (if the distance between the two families can be advanced), start to release the sedan chair whip, indicating that you want to send it home. Usually after two or three times, your mother's family will give you time to get on the sedan chair. If it is too late, you can put the sedan chair whip continuously. At this time, the bride's sister or aunt will tell you about the box moving ceremony, and there will definitely be noise in the process. At this time, the sugar cigarettes will be ready. Generally speaking, when it is agreed, you will move the box. Of course, before handing out the sedan chair, there will be a bride's owner with photos taken on your limousine, and then two little boys will be invited to press the limousine, which means that one or two red envelopes will be given to each person to let them down later. Generally 10 yuan a red envelope, two per person. After the bride got on the bus, she took out her cigarette to say goodbye to her relatives and friends, and her father-in-law said goodbye to her mother-in-law. Of course, there will be a farewell ceremony ahead. At the end of the farewell party, the groom must get off the bus, offer cigarettes to his two uncles and say a few kind words. When the bride arrives home, other brides without groom are waiting for dinner, toasting and making trouble in the bridal chamber. . . . When we get home, everything will be easy. . . Mainly in the bride's house, please pay attention to etiquette. All right. . . That's all I know. Specific things must be random.