1. When parents of husband and wife discuss giving red envelopes to the couple, the number of red envelopes must be the same.

The requirement is that if given, both parents will give it. If one party doesn't give it, neither parents will. Never show up One party gives and the other party doesn't. Or a parent gives a red envelope and a parent gives two red envelopes. Why? At this time, it is necessary to consider the feelings of parents. Because the process of giving red envelopes is under the eyes of the guests, not watching. If the number of red envelopes given by both parents is inconsistent, it will cause psychological pressure on the parent with a small number of red envelopes, and it may also become the focus of guests' discussion.

2. Parents should put the red envelopes on the "tooling" and give them to the newcomers.

Because in the process of parents giving red envelopes to newcomers, parents are usually very happy when they hear their daughter-in-law and son-in-law calling themselves, and it is easy to forget to give red envelopes when they are happy. If the red envelope is placed on the "bright side" at this time, the host will remind parents about the red envelope. If it is not put on the "tooling", the host can't see it, and the host dare not remind him. Because if parents forget to bring red envelopes, the host reminds them again. Parents will be embarrassed in public.