What conditions, what personality, what conduct, we can all return to the minimum standards of human mate selection. So many people use the minimum standards to help you choose a spouse, and your personality is actually ignored!
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Just like I asked a friend a question:
One says, "You are the right person to get married", "You are the one I want to find most" or "I just want to marry you". How will the listener feel?
This is like, everyone wants to eat rice, but vegetables belong to green onions and cabbage, and their preferences are different. This is why there are actually many people who are suitable for marriage on the dating website, but there are still some remaining reasons.
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Second, the right person, the senior condition is the person who is suitable for you to get married. Because marriage is a very personal and personal matter, and it is also a very personalized issue.
As far as a proper relationship is concerned, at least the following conditions should be met between you:
1, people who can make you happy more than sad;
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2. People who know all about you and are willing to be with you and really accept you;
Know your growth history, know what you need most, know what you can't stand most, know what can make you happy and know your vulnerability.
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3. People who are willing to appreciate you praise teachers, not bad reviewers;
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4. People who are willing to encourage you;
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5. People who are willing to support and trust you;
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6. People who share your troubles will find ways to solve them together and will not give up you and your feelings easily;
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7. People who want to find ways to improve their feelings with you and are willing to grow up together when they quarrel and disagree; For example, find a peacemaker, or do marriage counseling or study together.
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8. People who respect you, care about your feelings, care about your feelings and are willing to learn to understand and love each other;
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9. You are willing to imprison each other.
You are good to her and she is good to you;
You cherish him, and he cherishes you;
You love him, and he loves you!
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Why are these situations? Because in the relationship, except for one who is willing to fight and one who is willing to suffer, the routine needs to be suitable for you and reliable with you! Of course, these nine points are not formed at once, and it takes time to practice. Of course, it does not rule out that some people need to cultivate some abilities the day after tomorrow!