There are many girls who don't want bride price money, I am, but I got my license with my husband a few months ago. The man has a house and the woman has home appliances. That's all. Even the wedding is not planned. It's not that troublesome. It's simple. As for the bride price, I have never heard of it. Every time a colleague from other places asks me about it, I'm at a loss.
I asked the older generation two days ago, and they all said they had never heard of it. I don't have a bride price in Shunyi, Shunyi. The man gave 1000 1 one in a million, and the woman gave 9999 for a long time. Qi lived, as for how much money the parents gave later, it has nothing to do with the bride price.
The neighbor poked his spine: Is this family poor to the bone? ! You don't love your daughter that much, so you exchange your daughter for money? Parents blush all their lives and can't lift their heads. In the final analysis, it is related to the family style of Beijingers. This is the essence of our old Beijing, and not everyone can learn it.
I never understood why some people have nothing when they get married! Beijingers really never want a bride price. In fact, local customs are different. Married in Beijing, I haven't heard about the bride price. My family also gave me a Shandong sea view room. My grandmother's family is from Hebei. When a cousin gets married, the woman basically needs a bride price of about 200,000 yuan, a house and a car. I heard that some families with poor conditions have to borrow money to get a wife. In particular, I can't understand whether this kind of marriage bought with money is reliable.
Although there is no bride price in Beijing, in other parts of the country, the price of bride price is not the highest, but higher. A mountain is higher than a mountain, and all kinds of wonderful expenses and requirements are endless. For this sky-high bride price, some people are heavily in debt, some are frugal, some are patchwork, some are clubbed together, and some even make a murder case.
It was originally a festive wedding, but it was overshadowed. In view of the problems of sky-high bride price, extravagance and waste in some places, the state has taken measures. Recently, the Ministry of Civil Affairs has called for comprehensively promoting the reform of marriage customs, and actively advocating and organizing collective weddings, commemorative weddings, charity weddings and other wedding forms with elegant style, rich connotations, outstanding characteristics, civilization and frugality. Oppose the use of marriage to collect money, resist unhealthy trends such as sky-high bride price, extravagance and waste, vulgar marriage, comparison and gift giving, and promote the improvement of social atmosphere.