Interestingly, neurophysiologists point out that even if women only do small gestures like turning their thumbs, their neural activities are distributed in a larger area of the brain than men. When a person uses his brain, he will activate nerve cells in specific areas of the brain. Female brain cells are excited in all directions, forming countless exciting highlights. In other words, there is a special connection between the two brain hemispheres of women, which may not exist in the male brain. Some people call this feature of women "emotional intelligence form", while others directly call it "female intuition". We can call this intuition the sixth sense, which is a woman's lifelong companion. Intuition leads women, but it is also a sharp double-edged sword. Sometimes, too sensitive intuition will make women feel pain and hesitation before making clear their feelings. The CSI investigation team doesn't need to produce irrefutable evidence. A vague sixth sense is more convincing than anything substantial, because intuition is everything in a woman's dictionary.
If, when you encounter some very important problems, should you put intuition first, or pretend you don't understand and come and see it later?
I want to be your angel Emily
In that once-popular movie, Emily, the heroine, quietly helped her neighbors, spoofed people she didn't like, and even set up lovers who loved each other. She even used a series of tricks to make you laugh until you sigh, and let her MRRIGHT come to her with curiosity. All the people watching movies suddenly fell in love with this strange and kind girl. Is there really such a cute girl who doesn't like to brag in reality?
Nai Nai, 24, is counting down to the wedding. Her fiance, Liang, is one year older than her, and she is a senior in college. They belong to a rare "alien" from student couples to young couples.
Nai Nai has a lovely baby face, which looks like Anglenala in Korean dramas. Some colleagues who don't know anything are still actively planning to give Nai Nai a blind date, but Nai Nai, who has answers, proudly takes out a photo with her husband from her wallet every time, which is a commemorative photo taken on the spot when they receive the certificate, and then tells the matchmaker: "Sorry, I am already someone else's legal wife!"
Liang is a famous genius in their alma mater. He plays basketball better. Many girls are fascinated by him. He is an idol of both civil and military skills. Even after graduation, he is the protagonist of every class reunion. Liang and I met because of a mock interview. As Liang is the president of the Student Union, he has been an intern in a large advertising company since his sophomore year, so he served as an examiner in this mock interview and came to participate in the "interview". This next exam will last a lifetime, and they fell in love at first sight.
Intuition tells her that it is not wrong to choose this tall and handsome boy.
If you ask her why she can turn this campus love into a positive result, Nai Nai always gives you a relaxed smile. Her secret is to give him the most love and give herself the most space. Whenever a former female classmate invited Liang to a party, she always agreed generously.
Why are you pretending to be nervous? Put too much pressure on each other, and you won't feel better. Liang Zai's ex-girlfriend has never been an obstacle in her eyes. What's more, they are from the same university and know each other well. So, if you really feel uneasy, you can walk together smartly.
Liang knows all about his favorite TV programs, the style of decorations, exquisite suits and even the desserts he wants. Liang didn't tell her all this, but there seems to be a love radar in her heart, which can always receive what Liang longs for.
Whenever Liang is on a business trip, he will always use this time to clean up his home, then put on newly bought pastoral tablecloths and curtains and insert bouquets in vases that he has never bought. When Liang came back from other places and pushed open the door, he was always stunned by everything in front of him. Nai Nai's hand is like a magic wand, which can change a small family.
The so-called three-year itch, they also passed smoothly. Because of the same college experience, I always talk about the lush years. The most exaggerated thing is that I looked through my classmates and photos all night, and I was still unfinished at dawn. I temporarily asked for leave from the company to go back to my old school, visited my familiar teachers and had a big meal in the food court at the back door.
These experiences are not available to ordinary couples, and they are also the greatest wealth of Liang and memories of youth.
"You can always surprise me!"
When proposing marriage, this was the first sentence that came out of Liang's mouth.
"To Liang, I am Emily in that movie!"
Nai Nai said with a smile.
Occasionally, I am color blind.
TRACY, 3 1 year-old, and her boyfriend ERIC got the license two years ago. Due to their busy work, they are going to hold a formal wedding in 10 this year.
Both of them are foreign trade companies, and ERIC is a salesman, who travels around the world with the list and often travels. I didn't feel much when I first moved in together, but this time I'm going to hold a reception, and the problem suddenly came like a flood.
TRACY and her husband are both new Shanghainese, and their parents are out of town. Now I'm glad to hear that the babies are going to have a wedding. Thinking that Eric was hardly at home, four adults came to make the ceremony grand and smooth.
TRACY and her husband's nest, help them make suggestions together. This is so funny. The young couple have no special requirements for the wedding, but the old couple's opinions have never been unified. For a time, there was a constant quarrel in the warm nest.
For TRACY, although there is no formal exchange of rings to get married, she is actually the daughter-in-law of ERIC's family. It is not good to offend parents and in-laws. Before, she and ERIC were always free, because ERIC spent less time together on business trips, so every time they were together, they cherished it, and their feelings grew stronger rather than faded. However, this time, after the parents of both sides participated, the problem escalated. Parents often disagree on what to order, but Eric can't stay with Tracy all the time to help her solve the problem because of business trip. Tracy felt wronged.
Both parents finally arranged everything. When they all went home, Tracy thought that she and Eric could finally live alone, but at this time, she found that Eric seemed different from before.
There used to be a lot to say when two people were together at night, but now ERIC occasionally becomes silent and asks him if he is too tired from work. Eric will give Tracy a smile and tell her that he is fine.
Tracy's heavy heart made her feel a little suffocated. Intuition told her that something must have happened around Eric. But she didn't ask, but tried to reduce some overtime and pay more attention to ERIC. She knows that sometimes, excessive stress can make things worse. She wants to get her lover back intact before everything gets out of control.
Until one night, Eric went out to socialize with clients, and Tracy found a red mark on the back shoulder of his shirt at home. This faint fragrance, which she is familiar with, is Lancome's new lipstick, which is the choice of mature women.
At that moment, she thought a lot. Even opened the drawer, ready to pack up and leave. Eric won't answer all his cell phones. Whoever loves to get married can get married. She doesn't want to stay in this place anymore.
When she was leaving the house, she suddenly hesitated.
Just leave? Never see Eric again
In an instant, even a few days ago, parents' dispute over some details of the wedding echoed in their ears and became cordial and warm. Together, they woven a home in * * *. If you turn away at this moment, Tracy herself will be the first person to give up. How can this doubt erase the happy time she spent with Eric over the years? How can that red silk seal replace the silver halo of the upcoming oath ring? She slowly put down her luggage. Sorry, she said to herself, I want to defend my happiness! She wiped the mark on her shirt with a wet tissue, but it was not red, leaving only a shallow watermark on the texture of pure cotton.
The wet one is my heart.
Tracy thought.
Occasionally, I am color blind.
Everything will fade away.
Suddenly, the door of the house was opened in a hurry by a key, and Eric, panting, appeared in front of Tracy, with sweat dripping from his forehead.
"Thank God!" Eric had a childlike smile on his face. "You haven't answered your cell phone. I thought something was wrong!"! You have been busy preparing for your parents' wedding recently, and you are exhausted. I am afraid that you will suddenly faint alone! "
He walked over and patted Tracy on the shoulder, measured the temperature of her forehead by the way, and was ready to leave after making sure there was no problem.
"Where are you going?" Tracy finally said the first sentence.
"Go back to accompany customers! I sneaked out! " Eric made a face, and Tracy suddenly felt inexplicably moved. Go to hell, Red Seal! She hugged Eric from behind.
Maybe it's just a beautiful misunderstanding. Maybe it was just an unintentional injury.
Whatever the answer is, it doesn't matter. She won't "remember" the red mark she saw and erased tonight.
Many times, we can't help but be confused. Because I understand, I am confused. Because I understand, I sigh. Is to be a beautiful stupid woman? Or a smart and confused heart? Intuition is not everything, but you can't do anything without intuition. In the face of love, all beings are equal and all laws are invalid.
If you want to feel good, you must look on coldly. Not unprincipled, but as charming as the bright moon, with a pale and cold back. There is a little distance and a little longing. There is a thin line between mysterious intuition and hindsight. In women's minds, both internal and external training are indispensable.
In the name of love, how to express daily wisdom is often more complicated than making a profound equation.
Intuition tells us that the answer is not necessarily the only solution.
How much intuition you need in front of him to help you judge is entirely up to you.
There are thirty-six strategies in ancient art of war, and it must be the thirty-seventh strategy of love in hindsight.
So, if love.