First, the difference between wedding gold and hardware
Sanjin hardware refers to the gold ornaments that the woman bought when she got married.
The traditional three golds generally refer to: gold necklace, gold earrings and gold ring.
In hardware, "two gold" is more than three gold, and three gold refers to gold necklaces, earrings, rings, bracelets and anklets.
Whether to buy three gold or hardware for marriage can be decided according to different regional customs and family economic conditions.
2. Who will buy the gold or hardware for the wedding?
Three gold hardware is generally prepared by the husband's family for the future daughter-in-law, in order to express the daughter-in-law's love and attention. Most of them are given to the woman when she is engaged. On the wedding day, the woman wears a cheongsam and goes back to the man's house, or just takes it to the man's house as a decoration, which is equivalent to a part of the bride price.
However, some women's families will prepare gold jewelry when their daughters get married, so that their daughters can get married. It is equivalent to part of the dowry.
The gold jewelry bought by her husband's family is completely different from that bought by her mother's family, and there is no conflict between them.