Best man's duty: 1. Assist newcomers to deal with temporary or unexpected situations; 2. Give the bride a flower gate; 3. Contact the staff when picking up the bride and the float parade, so that they can know the situation and location of the new couple for arrangement; 4. Serve the tray and stop drinking when toasting.

Candidates: unmarried young men, not too tall, preferably good friends and Dionysus. Reason: He'd better drink a lot and work hard, because it's hard for the best man to hold the bottle at the wedding.

Bridesmaids and groomsmen can be said to be important figures in a wedding working group. Usually, the couple will invite a female companion as a bridesmaid, and some people will invite 6~ 12 girlfriends or sisters, one of whom is a bridesmaid, and some people call it a "companion" or a "bridesmaid".

When there is only one bridesmaid, some grooms will invite 2-6 friends to follow the motorcade to marry the bride, so as to make the bride's family beautiful. Everyone is called "the best man", except one main best man.

Usually, the number of groomsmen should be matched with that of bridesmaids. As the name implies, the best man and bridesmaid are the companions and representatives of the new couple.

Except for the wedding ceremony and the bridal chamber, the tasks of the best man and the bridesmaid are slightly different. Most of the time, they need to complete the following two tasks: task 1: personal butler 1, personally accompany the couple, and accompany them at any time. Especially when couples are on the stage, the best man and bridesmaid must wait at the edge of the stage.

2. Always pay attention to the image of new people. For example, help couples simply tidy up the hem of the suit, the skirt of the dress and the veil, and call a makeup artist to support them when necessary.

3. Pay close attention to the needs of newcomers. The most important thing for the best man and bridesmaid is to have a "wink": it is the best man's job to open the door for the couple, take what they have and help them maintain good manners; When the newcomer is thirsty, he will pass the water; When you see a couple crying, hand in a tissue in time.

Many couples forget to rest and are hungry because they are busy or excited, so the best man and bridesmaid must remember to remind them. 4. Be familiar with the personal belongings and personnel arrangements of the newcomers, so as to better help them coordinate and share.

In particular, bridesmaids should be familiar with the shoes, underwear and accessories needed for the bride's dress, and take care of the replacement. 5. Qualified bridesmaids and groomsmen should also try their best to ease and appease the new couple's nervousness.

Task 2: Newcomer Representative 1. When marrying the bride: the bridesmaid should try her best to freshen up the groom and don't let him take the bride away easily. Even the bride's handkerchief should read the bride's mind and try to let her enjoy the joy and glory of marriage.

The best man should "fight" for the groom together with the bridesmaids and other sister groups and help the groom fight for beautiful women. 2. When welcoming guests: The maid of honor's task is to welcome new people and pay attention to their appearance, while the best man and the best man should do most of the reception work.

3. During the dinner: When someone has a problem and the bride is slightly embarrassed, the bridesmaids should step forward and do their best. Now is not the time to be shy around the bride. It is the best man's responsibility to help the groom stop drinking, and he can't shirk it.

4. By candlelight: light a candle gun for the couple and follow them. 5. During the ceremony: when seeing off the witness and respecting the parents and elders, see off both parents. 6, make trouble in the bridal chamber: the best man will lead the guests to make trouble from the beginning.

Don't get me wrong, the bridal chamber is interesting, and the newcomers will have more face. If not, the best man will take the lead, grasp the scale after the start, and finally see the couple off as appropriate.

Bridesmaids can make fun of themselves, just don't forget to observe their words and deeds, stand up for the bride when necessary or try to divert everyone's attention. Memorandum for bridesmaids and groomsmen 1. Sometimes bridesmaids take responsibility for keeping red envelopes. Please prepare an exquisite but bulky handbag in advance, and remember to give it to the financial supervisor or parents designated by the couple before the ceremony, and ask them to keep it properly.

2. Remind the couple not to forget the ring, or keep the ring for the couple, and make sure to give it to the designated person on the stage before the ceremony. 3, holding a ring pillow, the bridesmaid undertakes this work, must remember to pay attention to their position, so as not to become a "third party" in the photo, and then help the bride pick up the flowers and take off her gloves.

If flower girl is holding a ring pillow, please ask the bridesmaid to take good care of him or her. 4. The groomsman and bridesmaid convey the new couple's voice on the wedding day.

Don't hesitate to find relevant staff in time to help newcomers convey their wishes and let professionals provide services for newcomers. Never make a decision without authorization.

Of course, if you plan to hire a professional wedding planner, it doesn't matter whether the best man and bridesmaid have experience. In addition to arranging all the trivial matters in the wedding, wedding planning will also guide and remind the best man and bridesmaid about their work, position and etiquette in the ceremony, and even arrange for the new secretary to perform part of the bridesmaid's work.

Bridesmaids and groomsmen wear relatively formal suits or dresses. If many groomsmen adopt formal clothes (such as Chinese tops), it will have a special dramatic effect. Bridesmaids had better wear a little dress, which is beautiful and different, and can also set off the bride. Of course, it must be easy to move, and don't let clothes distract them. After all, the main job is to take care of the bride.

In addition, it should be noted that the dress of bridesmaids and groomsmen should be consistent with the main color of the wedding. In fact, bridesmaids don't have to be women, and groomsmen don't have to be men.

The so-called "bridesmaid" actually refers to the person who accompanies the bride, while the "best man" is the person who accompanies the groom. If the bride's best friend is a man, don't let the word "Niang" as a bridesmaid list him as an unqualified candidate.

Similarly, the groom sometimes invites his female friends or sisters to accompany him at the wedding. In fact, many couples have members of the opposite sex in their partner teams.

In this case, the best man of the bridesmaid still has to undertake most of the work of the bridesmaid, but is usually called "attendant" or "maid of honor" politely; On the other hand, women on the groom's side, although still called "the groom's companion" most of the time, should be "the best man" in terms of tasks.

Second, what does the best man do?

The best man is the partner and representative of the groom. Except for the wedding ceremony and the bridal chamber, the tasks of the best man and the bridesmaid are slightly different. Most of the time, they need to complete the following three tasks.

Task 1:

1, never leave the couple, always accompany the couple, especially when the couple is on the stage, the best man and bridesmaid must wait at the edge of the stage.

2. Always pay attention to the image of new people. For example, help newcomers to simply arrange suits, dresses, skirts and veils, and ask makeup artists to make up their makeup in time if necessary.

3. Pay close attention to the needs of newcomers. The most important thing for the best man and bridesmaid is to have a "wink": it is the best man's job to open the door for the couple, take what they have and help them maintain good manners; When the newcomer is thirsty, he will pass the water; When you see the newlyweds crying, hand in the tissue in time. Many couples forget to rest and are hungry because they are busy or excited, so the best man and bridesmaid must remember to remind them.

4. Be familiar with the personal belongings and personnel arrangements of the newcomers, so as to better help them coordinate and share. In particular, bridesmaids should be familiar with the shoes, underwear and accessories needed for the bride's dress, and the changed items should be carefully kept.

5. Qualified groomsmen and bridesmaids should also try their best to ease and appease the couple's nervous mood.

Mission 2: Newcomer Representative

1, welcome: bridesmaids should try to make the groom complete, don't let the groom take the bride away easily, and try to let the bride enjoy the joy and glory when she gets married. The best man should "fight" for the groom with the bridesmaids and other sister groups to help the groom level the field and marry beautiful women.

2. When welcoming guests: The maid of honor's task is to welcome new people and pay attention to their appearance, while the best man and the best man should do most of the reception work.

3. In the banquet: When someone has a problem and the bride is slightly embarrassed, the bridesmaid should step forward; It is the responsibility of the best man to help the groom file the wine, which cannot be shirked.

4. During the ceremony: according to the requirements of the host, see off the witnesses and parents who gave speeches on stage.

Task 3: Set off a new style.

The main characters on the wedding day are the bride and groom. The best man and bridesmaid should not cast a shadow over the bride and groom on the wedding day, always keep their distance from the bride and groom, and take the initiative to avoid the main picture such as the camera.

3. As a friend's best man, what should I do?

I've never done this before. Different regions have different requirements, right? Well, I just went to Baidu and found out some duties of bridesmaids. You can refer to them.

The duties of the best man

First of all, before the wedding

1. Preparation:

On the wedding day, the best man must ensure that the groom gets up on time and dresses neatly, accompany the best man to decorate the wedding car and check whether there are any forgotten items. Make sure the groom arrives at the wedding church on time.

2. Keep the wedding ring:

The day before the wedding, if a bachelor farewell party is held, the groom will inevitably get drunk, so in order to avoid the confusion caused by not finding the ring on the wedding day, it is best to give the wedding ring to the best man for safekeeping in advance. If the groomsmen want to perform their duties well, they'd better not carry rings with them. It is best to put it in a safe place before the wedding, and then put it in the suit pocket on the wedding day until the wedding.

3. Wedding:

When getting married, the best man should help the groom beat the bride's sister, so as to help the groom marry a beautiful woman smoothly.

4. Location shooting:

On the wedding day, there is usually a location shooting. At this time, the best man also pays attention to preparing enough food and drinks for the people present.

Second, at the wedding.

1. Welcome guests:

The best man should accompany the couple to greet and thank the guests, and help guide them to their seats smoothly. At the same time, a small bag should be prepared to help the newcomers temporarily store the gift money and give it to the newcomers or their families after the welcome.

2. Wedding:

In the wedding ceremony, the best man is responsible for keeping the couple's ring and giving it to the groom or putting it on the ring pillow when appropriate. And don't leave the couple around, always accompany them. Especially when couples are on the stage, the best man and bridesmaid must wait at the edge of the stage.

3. Toast program:

If the groom can't drink well, the best man will stop drinking for the couple and communicate well with the guests.

4. Change clothes process:

Newcomers usually need to change clothes on their wedding day, so in this process, the best man must help the groom check whether there is any problem with his clothes, and if there is any stain, he should wipe it off quickly. Always pay attention to the image of newcomers. For example, help couples simply tidy up the hem of the suit, the skirt of the dress and the veil, and call a makeup artist to support them when necessary.

5. Meaning:

It happens from time to time that relatives and friends disrupt the wedding because of excessive play. At this time, if the best man and bridesmaid can read the couple's mind and control the scene in time without destroying the lively atmosphere, then the two are the best helpers for the bride and groom. A perfect and unforgettable wedding must have a pair of smart and eye-catching groomsmen and bridesmaids.

6. Pay close attention to the needs of newcomers:

The most important thing for the best man and bridesmaid is to have a "wink": it is the best man's job to open the door for the couple, take what they have and help them maintain good manners; When the newcomer is thirsty, he will pass the water; When you see a couple crying, hand in a tissue in time. Many couples forget to rest and are hungry because they are busy or excited, so the best man and bridesmaid must remember to remind them.

7. Other duties:

The best man also needs to distribute candy and gifts at the wedding to thank the guests. If there is a special program at the wedding, the best man also needs to help mobilize the atmosphere of the wedding. If there are any expenses that need to be paid on the same day, the couple can give the money to the best man in advance and let him help pay the bill after the wedding.

Third, after the wedding.

1. Build a new house:

The bridal chamber is usually initiated by the best man. A good new house means that the groom has a good relationship. The best man is going to announce to the bride that he is going to have a bridal chamber to prepare for the bride. All the bridesmaids have to do is stop driving the bride or distract everyone.

2. Send guests, clean up the venue:

The best man and bridesmaid can't leave at will like ordinary guests. They are not only responsible for welcoming guests, but also for seeing them off and helping the wedding end. And help clean up the wedding venue. Tell the couple where to put the gifts, and also take care of all kinds of items for the couple.

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What should the best man do at the wedding?

What are the precautions for the best man? On the wedding day, there is usually a bridesmaid group composed of the brother and girlfriend of the bride and groom, so as the best man, they also have some precautions on the wedding day. Let's see what these precautions are. ...

What are the precautions for the best man?

1. Don't be nervous, relax, keep your eyes active and smile at the guests.

Don't be too handsome, don't steal the limelight, concentrate on drinking, try to be funny, and most importantly, don't touch the bridesmaids.

Don't bring you and the groom the wrong flowers, remind the couple not to forget the ring, or keep the ring for the couple.

4. Prepare to change wine in advance, and prepare two wine bottles, one is real and the other is ditch change.

Be careful not to be the "third party" in the photo.

6. When you need any equipment or materials, don't hesitate to find the relevant staff in time, help the newcomers convey their wishes to them, and let the relevant personnel provide services for the newcomers. Don't make a decision without authorization.

Let me summarize.

These are the points that I have sorted out that the best man should pay attention to on the wedding day. As the best man, you must be careful not to make any mistakes on the wedding day. Doing the above will definitely make you the best man of a gentleman, and maybe you can also reap your own happiness at the wedding scene of the couple.

5. What should I do as the best man?

Those upstairs are very advanced things and have no reference value. It's not something that ordinary people like us get married. It's worthless at all.

I'll tell you what to do with my personal experience.

When you are the best man, you must first understand your relationship with the bride and groom. You are his (her) classmate or relative, or you didn't know the bride and groom well before being invited to be the best man temporarily.

If you are a relative of their family, such as blood relationship, brother-sister relationship, it is easy for you to be the best man. On the wedding day, you basically don't have to do anything, just follow the bride and groom, open the door for them and follow. You just need to follow the groom to meet the guests, and you don't need to attract them to the table. When the groom drinks with the guests, the groom has a bottle of real wine in his hand, and he is responsible for pouring the wine for the guests. The best man has fake wine in his hand, and you are responsible for pouring the wine for the groom. You don't need anything to help the groom stop drinking. Everyone knows that the groom drinks fake wine. If you give up drinking without authorization, the groom will hate you to death! Because he is the protagonist today.

If you are a friend of their family, such as the bride and groom, you may have more things to do and more problems to consider.

First, on the day of the groom's wedding, you should go to their house to help. Congratulations as soon as we meet. Give the bride and groom or their parents a red envelope from 200 yuan. If you don't clean up, then you and their family will be enemies in the future.

Second, you should consider what clothes to wear that day. The best man is actually the groom's assistant. Let your green leaves support his red flowers. So as the best man, you need to discuss with the groom's family first, and then ask what clothes to wear.

If you ask the groom if he wants to wear a suit, the groom's family says it's up to you, as long as you dress neatly, then they are implying that you should not wear a suit so formally. You'd better wear a leisure suit that day, so that others can see at a glance who the groom is and who the best man is.

If the other person asks you to wear a suit, you'd better distinguish it from the groom. Wear a simple suit and tie that day, instead of a tie, choose a plain shirt. In short, you can't dress better than the groom.

Note that you are not qualified to help others receive red envelopes, and you should not help others receive red envelopes. Don't be smart, usually the relatives of the groom's family will be responsible. When guests come to the wedding reception at noon, you just need to follow the groom. If the groom's family prepares cigarettes and candy, you should give them to the guests. There is nothing else to do.

If you are only a guest appearance as the best man, it has nothing to do with the bride and groom, then all you have to do is.

Communicate with each other a few days before marriage. You need to know the time and place of your wedding and discuss what you want to do and what clothes to wear.

If you make a guest appearance, you may suffer. Your relationship with their family is average. I still have to give a red envelope that day, saying that it is within 200. Besides, you have to help with the housework. If there is a sedan chair at the wedding reception, you should help the groom carry it together. And the reception of guests at the noon wedding banquet. I can only watch the groom's house collect red envelopes. You must never touch them, even if you mean well. In addition, I have to run errands and send the guests to the designated box. Those guests don't know you, so you should smile at them.

In the wedding ceremony, the best man and the bridesmaid hold ring boxes, the bride and groom enter, the best man follows the groom, and the bridesmaid follows the bride. Then, when the host speaks, the best man and the maid of honor stand aside. When the host asked to exchange rings, the best man handed the ring to the bride, who helped the groom put it on. Similarly, the bridesmaid gives the ring to the groom, who helps the bride put it on. Li cheng So is the fake wine poured in the back.

The above is my experience, which should be considered relatively complete. Of course, customs are a little different all over the country. You'd better discuss it with the groom's family. If you know nothing, you can ask your relatives. I hope I can help you.

What does the best man need to do?

On the wedding day, the man is the officiating ceremony, so the task of the best man is much harder than that of the bridesmaid. The duties of the best man and the maid of honor are the same, but the tasks are a little different. The best man should not only serve the groom, deal with all temporary emergencies, but also help the groom with the bridesmaid when he gets married. In order to help the groom get beauty, the number of groomsmen and the number of bridesmaids are paired, that is, if there are six bridesmaids and sisters, the groom must also find six friends to drive to see the groomsman.

Marry a bride; In addition to paying attention to the groom's appearance at any time, calming the groom's mood, taking things for the groom and driving the door, the best man also has a main role, which is to act as the host at the entrance of the venue and guide the guests into the room smoothly. Therefore, in addition to the groom's classmates and friends, it is best to have good colleagues and new people in the company as friends, so as not to inadvertently neglect either party. Another function of the best man is to stop the wine for the groom; No matter how strong the wine is, how much wine is added, after the groom has tasted it, he should present it quickly, give it to the groom first, swallow it in one gulp and never shirk it. After all, a beautiful bride can't get up in the middle of the night to wait on a stunned groom. Finally, one of the most important tasks of the best man is to lead the guests to play with the newcomers. Because playing well and having fun means that the groom is popular and the bride will feel proud. Therefore, if the guests can't play games, the best man must preside over the opening ceremony first, and pay attention to the scale carefully. Don't make the bride angry because of fun. The game is played properly, which makes the bride and groom blush and feel ashamed. After that, the best man knows that his interest is over, and today's wedding is finished perfectly, and the task is completed.

What will the best man do on the wedding day?

1, always accompany the groom. Familiar with the groom's personal belongings and staff arrangements, in order to better help the couple coordinate and share.

2. Print a flow chart and staff contact form on the wedding day: the specific time period and program name should be indicated in the form, and the name and contact information of each person in charge of the work should be available to facilitate coordination at any time.

3. Upon arrival at the hotel, confirm the raw material of fake wine (Quan Wei Daily C grape juice+empty wine bottle) to prepare fake wine, and keep it until it is taken out during the toast (it is recommended not to put it on the main table or in a conspicuous position, which may be easy for guests to drink). If you drink it by mistake, don't panic. Take a bottle of real wine, pour out two-thirds, and fill the rest with mineral water (coke can be added appropriately if the color is light). In an emergency, the effect is equivalent.

4. After the wedding car arrives at the hotel, take off the headdress and put it on the main table or sign-in desk.

5. Two minutes before the wedding, take the groom's cell phone (tuned to vibration).

6. Always pay attention to the image of the groom. For example, help newcomers simply tidy the hem of their suits.

7. Pay close attention to the needs of newcomers. The most important thing for the best man and bridesmaid is to have a "wink": it is the best man's job to open the door for the couple, take what they have and help them maintain good manners; When the newcomer is thirsty, he will pass the water; When you see a couple crying, hand in a tissue in time. Many couples forget to rest and are hungry because they are busy or excited, so the best man must remember to remind them.

8. When making a toast, a bottle of fake wine will follow.

9. During the whole wedding, the key links took the lead and applauded warmly.

10, always pay attention to the new image. For example, help couples simply tidy up the hem of the suit, the skirt of the dress and the veil, and call a makeup artist to support them when necessary.

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12, Welcome: The best man's task is to smile at the wedding guests, pay attention to the appearance of the couple, and also undertake most of the reception work.

13. When entering the venue, the best man and bridesmaid are responsible for opening the door of the banquet hall when entering the venue.

14. Ceremony: When the newcomer takes the stage, the best man must wait at the side of the stage. Say goodbye to witnesses, respect parents and elders, and say goodbye to both parents when speaking.

15. If there is a second best man, please ask him to stand in front of the table where the witness is sitting in advance. When the MC says to invite the witness to the stage, the second best man will guide the witness to the stage.

16. During the banquet: a. Observe the groom's state at all times. If the groom feels unwell after drinking, accompany him to the toilet to vomit and sober up in time (do not take vinegar tea and other sobering drugs). B: It is the best man's duty to help the groom stop drinking. We should carry forward the fearless spirit and stand forward.

17, make trouble in the bridal chamber: the best man should lead the guests to make trouble from the beginning. If it is not successful, the best man will take the lead, grasp the scale after the start, and finally carefully see the couple off.

18, the best man should try his best to ease and appease the tension of the couple.

What does the best man need to do when a friend gets married?

Actually, the best man is the groom's waiter. Everything is based on the groom's service, such as carrying a bag, taking a phone call, answering the phone when the groom is too busy or dealing with some emergencies.

Try to solve some of the embarrassment of the groom with your own flexibility and wit, such as giving up drinking, giving full play to your intelligence, complimenting the groom in disguise with appropriate language, and making the groom look good in front of her family.

Don't let the groom fall into the spoof trap set by friends or colleagues who come to attend the wedding, and let him get away with it at any time.

As for the details, you need to be flexible. In any case, you should give full play to your spirit of not being afraid of hardship, fatigue and responsibility, and do your best to contribute your mental and physical labor to the smooth progress of the wedding.