Under normal circumstances, the gift money can be enough for a banquet! Don't be too busy. Ten tables. How many brothers and sisters does your husband have? Is he an only child? If the only child has that money in the future, it will also be yours. Their family will deduct it. You should try not to ask them for money. They are afraid that you are greedy for money! Because you don't have the right family. Every place is different! The man's treat, the man receives the gift, and the woman is in charge. If they are handled together, the received gifts will be used together.