Both men and women can talk about bride price according to the following points.
1, sincere and generous.
Be sincere and generous in negotiating bride price. If both sides have their own ideal amount, they should speak frankly, then make clear their reasons and discuss related dowry and other matters, and negotiate in a measured way within the economic capacity of both sides, so that the possibility of disputes will be much smaller.
2. Explain the family situation
If the man really can't give such colorful bride price money, then frankly explain his financial situation, but don't blindly sell it to reduce the bride price. Most of what the woman's parents want is bride price money, which is for the woman's future life, not to embarrass the man. Just express it frankly. As for the amount of bride price money proposed by the woman, we should also give due consideration to the man's financial situation, especially now that many times the man buys a house, it may be really stressful.
3, take out the conditions to reduce the bride price
If you want to lower the bride price, you can't say it with your mouth. It will be considered by your future mother-in-law as a white wolf with empty gloves. You can first give the conditions to reduce the bride price, such as adding a girlfriend's name to the wedding room and writing a car. Don't call each other "selling prostitutes" with your mouth open. Usually, the woman's parents will accept the minimum standards of local bride price.