Sir, why not choose a shirt first and then a tie? This order makes things more difficult. The color difference between the silver-gray tie and the white shirt is too small to highlight the tie effect. Except for white, pink and purple shirts, other colors don't seem to be suitable for weddings, but none of these colors will match silver-gray ties well. I suggest you buy it again. Or exchange goods, let the staff in the store help you match them on the spot and tell them the purpose. They know how to help you.