After divorce, we often face a more serious problem, second marriage. When remarrying, many people will consider what kind of remarriage they should find. How do you spend your remarriage days? How can we eliminate each other's shadows and gain real trust? Of course, more consideration is how to live this life.
After the reorganization, many second-married families are happier than before. Of course, some of them still quarreled until the final divorce. So, why are the second-married couples still separated? There are many factors. Today, I will discuss with you the fetters brought by the children of the second married couple.
Nana has two children, a boy and a girl. After the divorce, the son returned to her ex-husband and the daughter followed her.
After the divorce, Nana met her husband's army. Because of the meeting of love, the two still came together. After marriage, Nana wants a child with the same parents, but her husband really doesn't want it, because her husband is divorced and has a son.
Son.
Nana also wants to keep it simple. As long as we have a good relationship, it doesn't matter whether we have children with you or not. But this idea still brought cracks to their second marriage.
Nana treated her husband's son equally, but she didn't get a response from the child for a long time. It's a bit like a deflated balloon, and she feels more and more tired. The husband army really doesn't care about Nana's daughter, which makes Nana very angry. The army explained that she could not be disciplined by force. After all, she is an adoptive father. Being too strict will lead Nana's daughter to refuse to accept or even resist.
Nana wants her daughter to take piano lessons, but the cost is a bit high. She wanted the army to support her, but her husband's army really didn't want to. Nana hopes her husband can give her some financial help, but she really can't get her husband's support. The sentence "Talking about money hurts feelings" was best fulfilled at this time.
Looks like husband and wife, but in fact there is some kind of involvement in the middle. All firmness is temporary and cannot stand the test.
More often, the focus of each other's lives is still on children. There is an illusion that in the hearts of two people, they can only be regarded as husband and wife, not as a family.
Divorce and second marriage with children are most likely to cause conflicts because of children's problems People's thoughts are selfish, and it is deceptive to say that few people can do it when they treat people as their own.
Man is a selfish animal. "Every man for himself, and the devil takes the hindmost" is the truth. Especially in this era of rapid development, the communication between people is often not so simple. In this era when interests are paramount, everyone wants to seek the greatest interests for himself. Remarried couples often have deeper interest disputes. Everyone has his own career, and it is difficult for husband and wife to get along.