I come from Lianjiang County, Fuzhou. When I got engaged to my girlfriend, I took 1W3 to the woman's house to prepare for the wedding reception. The woman is entangled in the bride price. How much is easier to ask. 1.3 million is too little. I paid a deposit of 8800 when I got engaged and took 33000 when I got married. Actually, it's nothing. The custom here in Lianjiang is that when a woman marries, her parents will take money to marry her daughter, and some will give tens of thousands more. Few parents will pick up the bride price money themselves, unless the woman's family is poor.