Urban parents object to their sons looking for "rural women"
Zhang Qiang and Xiao Qian met at a friend's party. They fell in love at first sight, so they soon got together. Although Xiao Gan is a girl from the countryside, she studied hard and was admitted to the university through her own efforts. Now she also works in a good company. Zhang Qiang, who grew up in this city, can be said to be a city person. He also bought real estate in this city, and his family conditions can be said to be very good. In this way, two people talked about love for a year. Both of them were in a hurry to get married, so Zhang Qiang took Xiao Gan home to see his parents. At first, his parents were very enthusiastic about Xiao Gan. When asked where Xiao Gan was from, Xiao Gan replied that he was from the countryside, and Zhang Qiang's parents' faces changed.
Parents believe that marriage must be appropriate.
When Zhang Qiang sent Xiao Gan back, his parents took Zhang Qiang and said that they hoped he would break up with Xiao Gan and disagreed with their marriage. Zhang Qiang's parents believe that Xiao Gan was born in a rural family, and her growing environment and education are different. Moreover, it is wrong for two families to get married in Yemen, so they will not agree to get married. Although Zhang Qiang fought many times and resisted many times, he couldn't beat his parents. In the end, the two of them could only end up breaking up.
Urban parents object to their son looking for a "rural" girl, just to be suitable? In fact, there are several reasons.
1. Different ideas
In fact, many times, an important reason why urban parents find rural girls against their sons is because of different ideas. First of all, two people grew up in different environments, and their horizons and thinking are very different. There are also parents in some cities who are biased against girls from rural areas, thinking that rural girls just want to become city dwellers by men. They are interested in the hukou and identity of urban boys and want to change their rural identity by marrying urban people. Falling in love is a matter for two people, and it is a matter for two families after marriage, so many times two people have different ideas and it is difficult to live together.
2. Different living habits
People who grow up in different places will have different living habits. Many times, the living habits of rural people are very casual, but urban people will feel sloppy when they look at these living habits. So many times, because of different living habits, in the process of getting along, there will be many frictions and contradictions.
3. Growing up in different environments
Two people grow up in different environments, and two people grow up in different environments. Many times, their ideas will be different. Just like some rural girls, they have become excellent by their own efforts, but many times their thoughts are still conservative. Because of the influence of the environment, they all think that the bride price money for girls' marriage is to build a house for their younger brother's wife. Because in the environment where she lives, everyone is like this. Therefore, parents in many cities will feel that rural parents are selling their daughters, and rural girls are not valued by their parents. This is really because the living environment of two people is different, which leads to different ideas.
In fact, these concepts are relatively backward. In this era, this view is gradually disappearing, but there are still some people. In fact, no matter where people are, as long as they are well-behaved, have a correct outlook on life and have a good heart, they should not adopt the viewpoint of regional discrimination.