@ Almost * *

This is a matter of mentality. You have to see that woman's house. People don't say anything, 30,000, 50,000, 60,000, 80,000, 654.38+ 10,000, 200,000 will do. Wenshan is the man's home, so it's better to give it back to you and the bride. Those gifts are just a formality. How much money you pay, the woman's family will marry her, and the money is still in your hands. Unless individual parents agree, they will return it to their daughters.

@ You * *

I feel that the bride price is not high. When I got married, I gave 66 thousand, and my wife's dowry was also refunded.

@ Xiangxiang * *

The bride price in some areas of Wenshan is still relatively high. Even if you have a house and a car, you have to pay a bride price of 654.38 million. If the man really can't come up with it, 80 thousand is the minimum standard

@ Dance King * *

Look at this family. I think our community is generally around 66 thousand.

@ Lori * *

Generally, it is 1006, 3006, 6006, 8006, 1006. Please ask the woman's parents for details! As long as the woman's parents are satisfied, everything can be said.

@ I will * *

My dad said that my bride price is at least 400 thousand. This is the rhythm that I can't marry!

@ Cherish * *

It means that my family only needs 16600, and my parents say it's just a formality, just two people.

@ Falling Flowers * *

Whatever you like, it's usually 16 thousand. You can send the bride price and the girl will come back as a dowry. No loss.

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Does the bride's dowry in Wenshan, Yunnan need a mirror?

Need. The mirror in the dowry is generally a dressing table, which is a part of the dowry of the woman and has a tradition since ancient times. So now the bride's dowry list must have a dresser with a mirror.

Many brides wear bronze mirrors on their wedding day. Generally speaking, these bronze mirrors are years old, and most people don't have them at home. It is often necessary to borrow or rent on the wedding day and return it after the wedding. These bronze mirrors are heavy and look very retro and modern. A red rope is usually tied on a bronze mirror to represent happiness, and the bride will hang the red rope on her chest or pin it on her waist.

In ancient times, people didn't have mirrors now, so they had to dress up with bronze mirrors. Therefore, bronze mirrors have always been an indispensable dowry for brides when they get married. This mirror will accompany a married woman for the rest of her life, and the use of it by husband and wife symbolizes harmony and beauty. When one side dies first, people will divide the bronze mirror into two parts, half of which will be buried with one of the husband and wife, and the other half will be buried with the other side when the other side dies. The second time? .

Therefore, the bronze mirror has been accompanied since people got married, but it is also a story that the bride must wear on her wedding day. Legend has it that in ancient times, a bride met a strong wind on her way to get married. After the storm, the bride became restless and stayed awake after marrying her in-laws. Later, an old monk passed by and presented the family with a bronze mirror for the bride to wear. It was not long before. Therefore, bronze mirrors have always been said to ward off evil spirits. Later, girls must buy a pair to ward off evil spirits and defend themselves when they get married.

Of course, wearing bronze mirrors to ward off evil spirits is just a superstition, but with the precipitation of time, it has also become a beautiful custom.