What is there to worry about? My biological parents will definitely play! Unless, of course, you are divorced, indifferent and irresponsible to your children. Parents' divorce is a matter for parents, and the relationship between father and son and mother is not dissolved by parents' divorce, right? ! Marriage is a child's business, and drinking tea with parents is of course no problem. ! A few days later (24th), my husband's daughter got married. In 20 15, when I was with my husband, his daughter 19 was still in school. She has lived in my house for more than two years and hasn't washed a bowl. Later, she worked and moved out of the house. I never thought I would go up and drink their tea. It's none of my business whether anyone else has a mother. I thought about not giving my husband face and letting his daughter and son-in-law have something to say in the future. So I went to dinner later and showed up before I left.
I'm a stepmother, and I think I have to go on stage to put a banquet here, because I can't lose face. I don't care. I invited my mother on stage. After all, his mother is proud, and now our permanent residence is on my side, near my mother's house. I'll see if he wants to go back to his hometown for dinner or stay here. I won't interfere!
Ex-wives, sons' mothers and stepwives are not suitable for weddings. When the son got married, both relatives came to congratulate him, and the stepson was embarrassed. Unless the stepmother is rich and dependent on her, the son must be close to his mother. I am an example. I am divorced. I have an only daughter who is married. The ex-husband wanted to call his current wife, but the daughter didn't come to the wedding. I told his father. My mother gave birth to me, not her. You asked me to introduce her to people who have been attending weddings, so that this stepmother can't come out to attend my daughter's wedding. My daughter and I are related by blood.
In this case, there is no unified model, and it is better to decide according to the situation of each family!
For example, if the biological mother has been away from home for many years and her son is raised by her stepmother, we can discuss letting her take office. However, some children, who don't have deep feelings with their stepfathers or stepmother, can also decide through consultation if they want their biological parents to take the stage at the wedding.
My cousin's son got married, and my stepfather and mother came to power. His biological father may be dissatisfied and didn't attend the party. Don't mind this, because the son has always been brought up by his stepfather and mother. Usually, the biological father doesn't care about his son.
My colleague's daughter got married and her biological father came to the wedding. To avoid embarrassment, her stepmother didn't come. Biological parents go on stage together.
So, as long as you feel comfortable at your child's wedding, don't mind these things. If there is a struggle between biological and stepchildren, then we can cancel this link and simply invite a parent representative to take the stage instead of parents!
At the wedding, everything is about the happiness of the children, and nothing else is important!
It seems that I have to face this situation. I divorced because my ex-husband cheated on me and never remarried. The ex-husband married a mistress and gave birth to a daughter. The divorce agreement states that all expenses of the son shall be borne by the ex-husband. But I never imagined that my son would not let me sit on the throne when he got married. Actually, my son was an adult when he divorced. My son is now doing business with his father in other places. The son has his own house and doesn't live with his father. I don't ask or care if he has any connection with Zheng Zheng San Xiao. Although the ex-husband is scum, he is very kind to his son. He always contacts me every three days to discuss his son's life, work and marriage. So, there is nothing wrong with that little girl.
/kloc-I just attended my nephew's wedding in October. When I was 8 years old, my mother had an affair, divorced a man outside and had a daughter. She has never fulfilled her obligations to my nephew. Now my sister-in-law has a good personality and has nothing to say. Finally, I asked my nephew's attitude and decided to give my mother a chance. After I let my mother go up, my relatives and friends under the table were all laughing and noisy, and they all called my mother not modest and angry that my father didn't attend the wedding. In a word, not all fathers have good children.
I think children should get married at their biological parents' home, so as not to embarrass their in-laws. Stepfathers and stepmother should not attend the wedding, so they can withdraw temporarily. The young couple can go to their parents' home in the future after they get married. If the stepfather and stepmother want to attend the child's wedding, the child's biological father can sit next to the in-laws father, the biological mother can sit next to the in-laws mother, and then their second-married spouses can sit next to each other, so that the second-married parents will be separated by the in-laws and will not be embarrassed. Newlyweds can directly propose a toast to their parents. At this time, the in-laws and the second-married parents should raise their glasses at the same time. At such a wedding reception, the main table is not suitable for sitting at a table other than relatives, otherwise unreasonable outsiders will joke by the way. This is how my friend's children got married, and everyone can understand [cool drag] [cool drag].
I attended a wedding, and the groom's mother paid for it and the stepmother arranged it. The whole wedding was lively and harmonious without the stage where parents came to power. The purpose of putting parents on stage is to stir up feelings, and gratitude is not at that moment, so why don't you cry or chirp? Moreover, without this link, families with daughters in the province are lost in their hearts. The wedding is to celebrate the birth of a new family. Are tears interesting?
To tell the truth, I am also a remarried family. My husband's son has already worked and is planning to get married. Not much contact with children. I hope he can be happy, but I don't want to attend his wedding, because I think it is better for his own mother to go and the children are not embarrassed. My mother witnessed her son's wedding! It's good! I told you I was afraid of people saying three or four! Saying that I don't even attend the children's wedding, especially my husband's mother and sister, will definitely sow discord! I'm not going, and I'm not going! I am the most embarrassed!