I'm from Xishui County. The first time you go to a woman's house, you have to bring a gift: good cigarettes and good wine will do. If I meet that woman and have a crush on her, I have to give her 2000 or 3000 gifts (engagement). Her family doesn't need to give red envelopes. The woman agreed after receiving the red envelope. You have to pay a bride price of 20 thousand to 30 thousand when you are engaged. This is the money that the woman sent back to the man's house when she bought furniture and electric motorcycles when she got married. As for the red envelope of the woman's family, it was the woman's family that came to the man's house after she got married. Let's look at the relationship. You have to pay more, and you don't have to pay 100 yuan to get it alone. That's basically it. If it's a girlfriend talking outside, whatever. Xishui is not feudal. Most people don't date now, so do13 people.