My wife and I are both from Dongtai, so what we said upstairs is biased. How much money you want in the end depends on the emotional foundation between you and her, local customs, their family customs, family situation, the number of children and the educational level of parents.

There are too many factors.

For example, if you are talking about an urban woman whose family is more educated, it may not be too difficult for you. After all, as a young man, you are on the rise, so it is good for their daughter to keep more capital in the future.

For example, if you are talking about a rural woman, I can tell you responsibly that the average rural education level in Dongtai is very low, and they are all bitter. Therefore, if you have a strong sense of money, rural people will be like the lucky numbers on the first floor, and some will cost hundreds of thousands. However, if her parents, like my in-laws, are uneducated but knowledgeable, they will eventually ask for a number according to your family situation, which is absolutely within your tolerance. In fact, they can't have it, but in rural areas, everyone marries his daughter at the price of10,000 to 200,000 yuan. They don't want to be laughed at by some ignorant people, so if you encounter this situation, you have to understand their difficulties.

But the most important factor is what kind of relationship you have with your girlfriend. In my opinion, there are two kinds of relationships between men and women. One is rooted, that is, you can't live without each other for more than four years. The other kind has no foundation or a relatively shallow foundation, such as blind date, friend introduction or talk for less than two years because of colleagues. This means that other girls don't have to marry you and you don't have to marry her. The first one says everything. Second, if you want to continue, talk to her parents about your current situation and future plans, and strive for understanding. If you fail, you can talk to your girlfriend again. And tell her that you have done your best and there is no way out. This is a fast knot. At this time, if your girlfriend is not interested in you, just split up. If she thinks you are suitable, she will definitely talk to her parents. If she still tries to fail, and you don't have the courage to elope, or you find this relationship boring from the beginning, then you simply give up and find the next one as soon as possible.

After so many hits, adopt it?