It is necessary to go back to the door to get married in our country. It's called "back door" because you want to go back to your mother's house with your husband. This is an indispensable custom and etiquette.
This is the last ceremony of marriage, which means that the daughter does not forget the kindness of her parents, and the son-in-law thanks her parents-in-law and newlyweds for their love and beauty.
A banquet was held at the woman's house, and the new son-in-law was seated, accompanied by the female elders. The newlyweds either return on the same day or stay for a few days. If they stay, they won't live in the same room.
Generally speaking, the bride's old man attaches great importance to returning home in three days, so the groom should make preparations in advance, both ideologically and as gifts, so as to leave a happy and beautiful impression on his parents-in-law. Gifts are prepared in advance. Buy gifts that the bride and the old man like. There are generally four kinds of gifts. Huimen usually leaves at nine or ten in the morning.