Yes, the gift money is also for Pinggu, but it depends on the economic situation of the man's family. After all, the husband and wife will have to live in the future, usually around 1W, and many will give 6600 or 8800, but if the man's family is particularly rich, it is another matter. The bride's dowry also depends on her family situation (it is not convenient to bring a bank card directly in Northeast China, but my wife can bring a card directly). The change fee of 1W is when both companies are rich (I think). I think it should be the same meaning. Just give some money, 200- 1000 yuan is enough. On the wedding day, the bride will wear a wedding dress until the ceremony is over, and then the bride will change into a toast dress (that is, red clothes).

On the wedding day, the woman's parents may or may not go. The two sides will discuss it and usually go.

The customs and habits of both sides are definitely different. The discussion between the two sides will be over. Getting married is a happy event and a hassle. Both sides will consider each other's difficulties when discussing, so it's easier said than done.

I am from the vicinity of Pinggu City, and my wife is not from Pinggu (other suburbs). The customs of Pinggu are also much worse. This is a question discussed by both sides. Save it if you can. Too much trouble. Everyone is tired. This was probably the case when I got married in Pinggu in 2009, and so was my friend. The situation should not be too bad now.