First of all, bride price and dowry are common customs in China traditional culture. Dowry is usually the property given by the woman's family to her daughter when she gets married, while bride price is a gift given to her by the man in marriage. The origin of bride price and dowry can be traced back to ancient marriage customs, and its purpose is to show mutual respect and gratitude between the two families. However, with the changes of the times and the evolution of culture, these traditional wedding customs are no longer applicable to modern society.
Secondly, whether there should be bride price and dowry can be discussed and negotiated according to the wishes of both parties. In modern society, many newcomers are no longer concerned about bride price and dowry, but how to establish equal and harmonious family relations. Therefore, whether there is a bride price and dowry in marriage depends on the wishes of both parties and the actual situation of the family. The two sides should negotiate according to their own economic ability and actual situation, not according to traditional customs.
Finally, if the bride price and dowry are decided, it is important to balance the interests of both parties. If one family demands too much dowry or bride price, it will make the other family feel unfair and wronged. Therefore, when discussing the issue of bride price and dowry, we should be fair and rational, not blindly pursue material things, but pay attention to the harmonious development of feelings and families.
To sum up, bride price and dowry are no longer necessary marriage customs in modern society, but should be discussed and negotiated according to the wishes of both parties and the actual situation of the family.