In our village, engagement is one in a million. A matchmaker went to the woman's house to discuss the betrothal, and the woman agreed to set a good day to send her uncle to get engaged. Most husbands don't come. Before you get married, you should tell the woman the date in advance, and then the woman agrees to the date before you get married. You still have to take the money. The exact amount is unclear. On the way to pick up the bride, you will throw money when you see the bridge, and then some relatives will send the bride a small meal, including jiaozi and noodles. I wonder what kind of relatives gave it to me. That's about it. Engagement: the man wants 10 thousand engagement money to get married: the man wants to prepare a red envelope and go to the bride's house. If he insists on giving them a red envelope, don't let him into the house!