Although the marriage rate in China hit a new low of 10 last year, we still have to admit that marriage is a very sacred thing, which is not only related to the happiness of two people, but also to the harmony of two families. Therefore, China people's attitude towards marriage has always been very cautious and solemn, and they are basically engaged before getting married. Generally, when engaged, the man needs to bring some belongings to the woman's house, which is what we often call a "bride price". On the wedding day, the woman will also give back a gift, which is called "dowry". Originally, "bride price and dowry" was just a kind of etiquette between the two families, but these etiquette gradually evolved into a burden for both sides. In recent years, reports of "excessive bride price, cheating on marriage and breaking off marriage" have emerged one after another, and this happened to reader Mr. Wang.

Wang Jun is a truck driver. After graduating from junior high school, Wang Jun didn't go to school. His parents tried to persuade him to go to a technical school, where Wang Jun studied auto repair technology. His parents thought that their children could open an auto repair shop in their hometown after graduation, but Wang Jun naturally didn't want to study. Even in the technical school, he is absent from class every day. After studying in a technical school for three years, he only got a driver's license. At this time, his parents were extremely disappointed with him and had to let him die. Later, Wang Jun was introduced to the south by his classmates.

Following the car for several years, Wang Jun has learned the doorways here and has some savings in his hand. Naturally restless, Wang Jun decided to go it alone. He took out all his savings and bought a van, and then began to make it himself. It was hard at first, several times harder than before, but Wang Jun persisted. A few years later, his savings gradually increased, and Wang Jun reached marriageable age. Parents asked the matchmaker to tell Wang Jun about a marriage. This woman also comes from the countryside, and her family is not rich. The girl's father is always ill, and the whole family is struggling with her mother. Girls also dropped out of school early and went out to work to supplement their families. Wang Jun's eyes lit up when she saw the girl. Because girls are handsome, it stands to reason that suitors should line up. Later, the media talents said that the reason was that the bride price the girl wanted was too high, and the mouth was 10.

Wang Jun learned that, can't help but back out. However, Wang Jun will never forget the girl's appearance. Every night when I sleep, Wang Jun always dreams of her smile. Finally, he decided to agree to this marriage. Although there are many bride price of 654.38 million yuan, Wang Jun thinks it is worthwhile to marry such a handsome woman. In this way, two people are engaged. On the day of engagement, the Wangs gave her 654.38 million yuan. After men and women are engaged, they can live together. After living together, Wang Jun respected the girl's decision very much and took good care of her. Based on the principle of love me, love my dog, Wang Jun is very kind to the girl's family and buys a lot of things every time, including the medicine of the girl's father. Arguably, Rainbow should be a good man for a hundred years.

Wang Jun waited for a long time and finally looked forward to the wedding day. On the wedding day, Wang Jun, wearing a suit and tie, led the wedding car to the woman's door. After some ceremony, Wang Jun was stopped when she was ready to pick up her new wife in the wedding car. Wang Jun heard the bride's words through the door: "You take another 50 thousand yuan, or I won't get on the bus and get married." I heard that, Wang Jun's originally happy face suddenly darkened. At this time, it is obvious that girls want money, so it is difficult for them. Wang Jun had to let the girl get married first and give money after marriage, but the girl didn't agree anyway, and didn't get on the bus until she saw the money. This completely angered Wang Jun, who led the wedding team and turned to leave. Later, the Wangs asked the woman to return the bride price, but the woman refused to admit it and was once deadlocked.

After receiving a letter from reader Wang Jun, Xiao Qiang specially consulted a lawyer. In this case, the woman must return all the bride price, otherwise it will constitute fraud and bear criminal responsibility. When reviewing the full text, Xiao Qiang found that the girl was very hateful, but she also had some pity. After all, born in such a family, she is also very helpless when she meets such parents. Moreover, Wang Jun also said that she really liked this girl, but the unreasonable demands on the wedding day made him very angry. If Wang Jun gets 50,000 after marriage, he agrees without thinking. The key is to make such a fuss on the big day, which is obviously a refutation of face. How do you handle this kind of thing?