The commentary 1 Borrow my life is a farewell work by Mr. Yu to the cultural circles in China, which involves many unknown experiences of him and his family, and also depicts the whole-person model of "disclosure" and "criticism" during the Cultural Revolution. From his predecessors to himself, the author wrote this work with plain and profound memories, and the author used his own brushwork. When it comes to one's own life experience, the language is simple, as if a person who knows this way is telling his own life experience. Mr. Yu once said: "I have always disapproved of artists who are in the process of creation being too excited, but I often burst into tears when writing this book."
It can be seen that he invested a lot of feelings in the process of completing this work. While reading this book, I always feel happy or sad about the fate of the protagonist in the book, as if I were in that era. After reading it, I savored it for a long time. Later, I thought of myself and reflected on my life in this 19 year. My memory is blank. Then I wondered. I have to admit that in my first few years, my memory was always reading and reading.
I am ashamed. Why is my life so dull? Is it because I was born in peacetime? Is it because my living conditions are relatively comfortable? I kept asking myself, and finally I got the answer. It's not that my life is too dull, but that I don't know how to understand the ups and downs of life. In my past many days, I have always been moving towards a set goal. When one goal is achieved, another goal is waiting for me. When I entered the university in this state, when all my goals were achieved, I felt unprecedented emptiness and my life lost its direction. It was at this time that my surroundings gradually became clear. It turns out that I have the same beautiful and vivid experience as the author, but I haven't had it before.
People always become uneasy because they lose their goals. Just like the people in feudal times, they will never be dissatisfied with the tyrannical behavior of the emperor, but will only be uneasy because of losing the rule of the emperor. Even if people live with such a mentality, they will always have only goals in their eyes, and some people will miss the scenery from stop to stop. Why not stop and look at the colorful scenery on the road of life? No one can give us a perfect life, but only they can answer who will lend it to me.
Slow down your pace, in fact, the surrounding scenery is really beautiful. ...
Reflections on Lend My Life 2 "Reading a good book is like talking to a noble person." After reading Lend Me My Life, I gained a lot in dealing with people and got a deep understanding of this sentence. Every time I read a good book, it's like receiving a spiritual baptism. Every time I see a delicate description, I feel that I am integrated with the author. It is a lack of vocabulary to describe the wonderful feeling of imagining things as hearty and immersive. When reading this book, I always vaguely feel that the author is sitting opposite me, teaching me the greatness of his life, and the sentence in the book, "Did they scold?" What did they scold? Let them go! "It shocked me, yes! There will inevitably be some misunderstandings and bumps in life, so what's the harm? A clean hand wants no washing. Who can you scare? It can only make people who are really at fault feel scared. Only when they are upright can they be fearless of evil. Dante said, "Go your own way and let others talk!"! "What do we study knowledge for? Is this an elegant title? Secular flattery? Don't! We must jump out of the shackles of the secular, return to the real inner world, and be ourselves! " Let them scold! "In real life, there are indeed many shouting voices, but can that prove the meanness of the scolded? Perhaps, on the contrary, people can see that swearing is uncivilized. Just like many people habitually speak English on campus, no matter who hears it, the first instinct is to condemn this person for being uneducated. So, don't argue with them, be fair and comfortable.
"Books are the ladder of human progress." Yes, I benefited a lot from reading Lend My Life. I learned a new writing method-I want to praise first, I want to praise first. For example, when writing about a pseudo-elite, the author said, "The brilliance of this master makes me look up, but I dare not approach it, because he has created countless tragedies with his hands." This writing can not only emphasize feelings, but also make the characters more distinctive. The author's views and opinions can be written in a short sentence, which is the greatest advantage of this writing.
In a word, reading a good book has many advantages, but there is no harm. It can cultivate people's sentiment, sublimate people's spirit, improve people's interest and exercise people's writing style. It makes people physically and mentally healthy and virtuous. It is a good medicine to get rid of ignorance, a noble spiritual food, a precious wealth of human historical progress, and a mentor and friend of progress. Read more books and read good books.
Reflections on "Lend Me a Life" 3 Every night before going to bed, I take it as my pleasure to lie back in bed and read newspapers in the warm light. Some time ago, I read Yu's Lend My Life, and my experience was really extraordinary. Like many people, I have always been a loyal reader of Yu's works. If I remember correctly, he served as a judge in the 10th and 12th CCTV Singers' Grand Prix, and his humorous comments touched the hearts of many TV viewers all over the country. In my opinion, every article on his blog is a masterpiece. Every few days, I always open his new collection published on my blog and read it.
My feelings after reading "Lend Me My Life": The narrator who has a broad vision and sighs for thousands of years in the cultural journey is being replaced by a clearer and more vivid individual life? From this perspective, Mr. Wang's "memory literature" seems to be a "general interpretation" of all his past works with his own life memory.
Lend Me My Life is Yu's farewell work to China's cultural circles, which involves many unknown experiences of him and his family, and also depicts the whole-person model of "exposure" and "criticism" during the Cultural Revolution in memory ... From his predecessors to himself, the author wrote a literary work with plain and true memories. "I have always disapproved that artists who are in the process of creation are too excited, but they often burst into tears when writing this book."
Lend Me My Life is the life course of Mr. Yu Qiu, the spiritual course of his contempt for disasters and constant breakthroughs, and a family epic in prose style. His original style combines many opposing factors, such as experience and exposition, passion and calmness, macro and detail, and shows all-round expressive force.
Through Mr. Yu's memory, we can sort out the way of thinking he expressed in a series of cultural essays: the experience of his youth (such as being respected for writing letters to his neighbors) cultivated his closeness and trust in culture; The experience and observation during the Cultural Revolution made him deeply worried about the prospect of "cultural ruins". In Fenghua and his later hard study, he really established his own cultural beliefs through extensive reading of traditional classics; In the process of artistic theory explanation and creation, he realized the importance of "structure" to literature and even culture, and made me understand the artistic charm of unknown structure and dilemma structure; In the process of being an administrative leader, he began to reflect on "the cultural inefficiency of China for hundreds of years"; On my journey alone, I found the possibility of remolding and constructing the national cultural system with "dialogue"; Since then, his travel and creation are his personal practice of this cultural concept. ...
Reading "Lend Me My Life" and following your thoughts and life feelings are really the greatest enjoyment of life.
After Reading Lend My Life, I really felt the beauty of reading. Only through the passage of time, the feeling of life and looking back can we perceive the truth of reading mood.
Reflections on Lend My Life 4. Feel the noble love between people and animals-lend you my life.
Nature, a magical craftsman, has created so many animals, among which dogs have always been recognized as faithful friends of human beings.
Lend Your Life is the true story of the author Li Wei and two dogs. Snowball: Snowball is a white Beijing dog that the author met by chance. Dogs are docile and loyal, almost perfect. The author's parents kicked her out several times, and she could find her way back by herself. The author also regards it as a "puppy given to her by God", but the time spent together is very short. The author is going to study in the city. The loyal snowball waited for the author for 49 years in the wind and rain, and finally died ... Ice cream: Ice cream is the author's second dog after snowball. It's obviously different from snowballs. He is naughty and can't even tell who his owner is ... but it is such a bad dog that brings happiness to the lonely girl and unties her heart.
But when the ice cream left her, the author really understood what "heartache" meant-
The author also wrote in the book-
You use your little body
Warmed my whole world.
Even at the end of life
Don't forget to let me stand in happiness.
Thank you for lending me your life.
Let me spend the best time of my life.
Those warm and happy times
Thanks to two dogs who came into my life-snowball and ice cream.
Thank you for making my life so wonderful!
Thank you for letting me know what love and responsibility are!
Thank you for teaching me to cherish time and cherish the people I love and those who love me!
The affection between man and dog is so noble and pure, not rhetoric, not fleeting affection, but flawless, noble and eternal affection!
After reading this book, I always feel that things that have been dusty for a long time will be mentioned: in fact, when I was five or six years old, I also had a dog. She has no breed like the author's dog. She is just a wild dog that my grandfather picked up. After washing, her hair was yellower, as shiny as wax, and her big, round black eyes seemed to glow. I took her running and jumping, and soon we became good friends. I always throw her bones at dinner, and sometimes I play hide-and-seek with her. I always affectionately call her Huang Huang. Lovely Huang Huang never hurt me, but my grandfather said that if I was bitten by Huang Huang, I would get rabies, so I drowned Huang Huang. I hid behind the wall, listening to Huang Huang's screams, and "hated Grandpa" in my heart. Maybe this is love beyond family ties? !
The love between people and animals is great that we can't imagine and sublime that we can never understand. ...
Mr. Yu himself said after reading "Borrow My Life": "I have always disapproved of artists being too excited in the creative process, but when writing this book, I often shed tears." I think everyone who has finished reading this book will at least have moist eyes, not pure sadness, but a mixture of understanding, identification, sympathy and admiration.
From Yu's own perspective, the book tells the story of social changes, the struggle of childhood and youth, the success and retirement of middle age, and the warmth and coldness of human feelings through personal experience. There is light, darkness, anger, helplessness, success and failure; Open and close, unbreakable pride is immortal; There are always hardships, and there is no need to fail easily.
Life is like a road, it will always come out. Bricks used to pave the road are the choice. What makes you successful is choice. It is also a choice to defeat you. The criterion of choice is determination.
There is an article in Zeng Guofan's family letter that mentioned the ambition of a gentleman. After reading it, I feel that its ambition and scope are beyond words. For example, the top of Mount Tai can only be looked up; "A gentleman's ambition, the amount of things and people, the inheritance of the sage inside and the king outside, and then not satisfied with his parents' life, deserves to be a perfect person in heaven and earth. Therefore, it is also a worry, not as good as Shun and Duke Zhou, and it is also a worry that virtue has not been cultivated and knowledge has not been taught. Therefore, stubborn people worry about it, barbarians worry about it in summer, villains worry about it when they are in power, and ordinary women worry about it when they are overreached. The so-called pity for fate and pity for others are also the worries of this gentleman. Zeng Guofan's sixth brother laughed at his bad luck and called himself strange. Zeng Guofan only replied: "His ambition is too small and his worries are not great. "
The prosperity of the world and the strength of the country have given us more freedom of choice, but we can't blame these pessimistic things such as bad luck, collusion between officials and businessmen and no way out on objective reasons, blindly escape, and finally don't think about who is paying the bill.
The common fault of youth is confusion. The reason for confusion is that I can't see the road clearly. Seeing the road clearly is actually a standard without choice. Finally, in a word, it is always the strong who are respected, and the strong are lonely.
After reading Lend Me My Life, I often think, what should I do next in my life? How will I feel when I am old and look back at the journey of life? But after reading "Lend Me My Life", a history of struggle, a history of life, and a difficult journey of life suddenly appeared in front of me, which surprised me and shocked me. Not for the existence of life itself, but for the indestructible power of the wall of life built bit by bit, which is awe and praise for life.
Lend me my life can be said to be Yu's autobiography, which tells the story of him from childhood to middle age, just like a river of life, people have to listen to it.
Reading Lend Me My Life is not only a simple story, but also a charming language with elegant rhythm. The following is an excerpt:
"The mountain is so beautiful that children are never afraid of graves. Now that I think about it, it is the lakes and mountains that erase the boundaries between life and death. Quietly smoothed in the innocence of children jumping, so that these children will be optimistic and cheerful when they grow up, and will not be sentimental about the ups and downs of life. "
"An order that has been repeatedly debugged will constitute a kind of stability; An ecology that can stand the test of time will constitute an inertia; A rule that precipitates culture will constitute a defense; A habit that contains human nature will form an atmosphere. "
"I think if an overworked person wants to relieve the bondage of his position and relax, a better place than a resort is under the knees of his elderly parents."
Obviously, this is not a simple language, but a mixture of strong music. Every note is enough to strike a chord and arouse people's emotional waves. I remember Yu Xiansheng once said in an interview that his articles pursue a rhythm. I realized that every poetic word is the essence of life, extracted from the process of life. Following Yu Xiansheng's life, I seem to have experienced such a life once and trudged through such a life course.
A spiritual baptism is enough for people to learn.
I learned how to face great pressure and difficulties: great mental pain-where will you go and be unjustly imprisoned; Extreme material shortage; Hard farm work can't crush the real backbone. Only by putting life on the most painful threshold can we clearly perceive its existence.
I learned how to face honor: it is too simple for people to accept honor, but it takes character and dreams to voluntarily give up the aura of honor. Therefore, what Mr. Yu heard was the call of culture. Can I hear the call of dreams?
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The life honed is really as bright as a pearl. It doesn't need more gravel or storms. Because of time and years, it has become smooth and tough, warm and full. When it was displayed in front of people, people were amazed at the praise, but it smiled-it was a pair of gentle eyes that saw through the traces of time, and it was a smooth and intimate life that smoothed all eyes.
From that moment on, I was in awe of the trudging life.
I like writing, not only by myself, but also by appreciating other people's masterpieces. In my brother's words, I seem to be from a certain planet. Nowadays, children born after 80 generally like romance, fantasy and the like. In fact, the most depressing thing for my brother is that I don't even know the concept of fixed truth. I didn't know what it was until last night.
I like to eat some snacks after work at night, put some melodious music in my notebook, nest in baby bear's arms, and then quietly enjoy my favorite words. Sometimes I look at it with great feelings, holding a book, then lying quietly, remembering, or looking at a place with feelings, then smiling faintly at myself, and then looking forward to the future in my mind. Every picture is so beautiful, sometimes I really don't want to come out of my imagination. If you really live in your own world, it may be the most beautiful ending.
When I read Lend My Life, the children's game was so simple. They just play, ignoring the danger. The sword with fire is on the rampage and flying all over the sky, which is actually a lively picture. I can't help thinking of my childhood.
On a hot noon, the adults all took a nap, but we didn't feel sleepy at all. We came to the fields in droves At this time, all kinds of melons are planted in the field, such as watermelon, cantaloupe and melon ... actually, they are not for eating, but for fun. We also fished in the river with a fishing rod for a while, but we didn't see any fish for a long time, so we went to the nearby fields to pick melons to eat. At that time, we didn't know. Then we took a bite and threw it away. We ended up in a mess, and some of them were delicious. But when we watched them covered in mud, we made a few small holes in the nylon ditch of the people who irrigated the land nearby with fish hooks (this is a plastic-like thing that our family told us to bring water to our home), so that the water gushed out like a small fountain, and we used this water to wash our trophies. Then find a cool place to sit down and enjoy the fruits of your labor.
Now I think it was really bad at that time, but children are children. We don't have that consciousness. We just think it's interesting. We just think those beautiful melons are really beautiful. They smell so good. Even after eating, we always feel a faint fragrance around us.
Maybe given another chance, I will still do some lovely things like childlike innocence. I always feel that childlike innocence can never be wrong. Childlike heart is the cleanest place, pure and simple.
Comments on "Lend me my life" 8 This article was written by Mr. Yu's "Lend me my life".
I remember reading this book for the first time when I was a sophomore. I cried and watched it again and again for a whole month. I just think this book is too sad. ...
In the later days, I never dared to read this book again. I often read a book, but I burst into tears before opening it. Later, a friend asked me what I thought of the book, and I always told him that it was too bitter to read. ...
Today, I opened the book again and read it unconsciously. I feel sad without tears. ...
I was surprised to find that I couldn't cry. Perhaps the frequent suffering and the ending of the story have already been deeply rooted in people's hearts. I am numb, but I don't feel sad. But after suffering for a long time, I stayed at the window and looked at me and history. ...
Looking at this book, I feel lucky that I can handle the garbage in this world without digesting it.
Therefore, I just want to do things with peace of mind and have no worries. Therefore, heavy anxiety and intensive pursuit are precisely the portrayal of our survival significance.
Silent and distant. Next to the vast tall building.
If the humiliation in the disaster can't shake my personality, then the personality after the disaster will inevitably encourage me to refuse to be humiliated. The experience of disaster makes me despise disaster. This is the second independence of personality!
This sentence of Yu has always been something I can't look straight at. Living in a bustling city creates its own peace, insists on self-taste, returns to itself like all beings, maintains its dignity and blends into the crowd.
Secular blasphemy was unbearable, and I left, ignoring everything in this world.
So, I used to be an ordinary person, but I was also lonely and arrogant.
Therefore, this kind of loneliness that is not autistic has become a shield for me to live up to the world. All the excitement has become a distance for me, and it is difficult for me to blend in with the noisy cities around me.
The morbidness I can't get out of is just the end of indifference between fame and loneliness. My poetic sadness is just the natural externalization of respect and quality. Thus, beauty was born.
Unfortunately, the beauty I want is not here. So I began to look for myself, after hearing this cry.
In the end, I only found this lonely person, lonely as a shadow. ...
So aging is like loneliness, which is cruel to human beings. I'm tired of aging, but suddenly I understand that loneliness goes hand in hand. The blood turned black ...
Promise to heaven: lend me my life, I will not bear it. ...
After reading Lend Me My Life, I remember reading this book for the first time when I was a sophomore. I cried and watched it again and again for a whole month. I just think this book is too sad. ...
In the later days, I never dared to read this book again. I often read books, but I burst into tears before opening them. Later a friend asked me what I thought of the book. I always told him that it was too bitter to read ... I reopened the book today and read it unconsciously. Without tears, I feel sad ... I am surprised to find that I won't cry. Perhaps the frequent suffering and the ending of the story have already been deeply rooted in people's hearts. I am numb, but I don't feel sad. Can be bitter for a long time, stop at the window, look at me, look at history ... look at this book, feel lucky to deal with the garbage in this world, do not have to digest. Therefore, I just want to do things with peace of mind and have no worries. Therefore, heavy anxiety and intensive pursuit are precisely the portrayal of our survival significance. Silent and distant. Next to the vast tall building. If the humiliation in the disaster can't shake my personality, then the personality after the disaster will inevitably encourage me to refuse to be humiliated. The experience of disaster makes me despise disaster. This is the second independence of personality! This sentence of Yu has always been something I can't look straight at. Living in a bustling city creates its own peace, insists on self-taste, returns to itself like all beings, maintains its dignity and blends into the crowd. Secular blasphemy was unbearable, and I left, ignoring everything in this world. So, I used to be an ordinary person, but I was also lonely and arrogant. Therefore, this loneliness that is not autistic has become a shield for me to live up to the world. All the excitement has become a distance for me, and it is difficult for me to blend in with the noisy cities around me. The morbidness I can't get out of is just the end of indifference between fame and loneliness. My poetic sadness is just the natural externalization of respect and quality. Thus, beauty was born. Unfortunately, the beauty I want is not here. So I began to look for myself, after hearing this cry.
In the end, I only found this lonely person, lonely as a shadow ... so aging is like loneliness, which is cruel to human beings. I'm tired of aging, but suddenly I understand that loneliness goes hand in hand. Blood will turn black ... Promise to heaven? Lend me my life, I won't be negative. ...
Comments on "Lend Me a Life" 10 One morning, I finished reading the first part of "Lend Me a Life" by Mr. Yu. The mountains of the elders, the things in the countryside, the old house and cheongsam, the post of offering sacrifices to nephews, Shan Shu and menstruation.
These teenage parents are short-lived, and I was deeply infiltrated. That kind of feeling, as if the drizzle in Jiangnan hutong hit a passerby without an umbrella, is interesting but not bitter. Although it feels wet, it is full of hazy beauty. In front of you is a Jiangnan oil painting, full of indescribable nobility and shock, which makes you linger.
Chewing words, thinking for a long time, full of saliva, that kind of greed, that kind of hunger and thirst, that kind of yearning is indescribable.
For example, "Mountain of the Elderly" wrote that the mountain needs to be visited slowly and needs to be talked quietly.
The mother in The Old House and Cheongsam, as a noble family, married to the countryside and volunteered to read and write for the illiterate villagers in the village. Later, she organized a literacy class with another aristocratic family who was knocked down or even lost her life. At that time, she suffered a lot for it. What a good spirit.
There are also mothers who are deeply touched by their children's education. Bold mother let the children under the age of ten undertake the task of reading and writing letters, and bravely called the children home from the old school to cultivate themselves. In the middle of the night, the child went up the mountain to pick up his mother alone, and insects and beasts appeared on the mountain. . . . The story of bold mother and son has made Mr. Yu's temperament, not flattering, calm, bold and cautious!
"Single Uncle and Menstruation" expresses more the nobleness and integrity of people in luxury houses who would rather die than surrender and lead a totally clean life!
I suddenly have an impulse to read all my works carefully. Read it like a stew, slowly, slowly, the essence overflows, and the fragrance overflows, filling the whole room.
That feeling is really a drizzle in the south of the Yangtze River.
Comments on "Lend My Life" 1 1 One afternoon before the Spring Festival, I was a guest at my sister's house. When I have nothing to do, I see some books on the sofa. I came across an old book with an orange cover and asked my sister what happened. My sister told me that it was an old book she found online, and it was Yu's "Lend My Life". There are some good stories in it. As soon as I heard this sentence, I became interested immediately. I went to pick up this old book, turned over a few pages and asked my sister to lend it to me for a few days. Lend me my life is based on the group image of these ordinary people. Outline a true and concrete modern folk ecological history. Because everything starts from self-feeling, the protagonist of the book soon shifts from the predecessors to the writer himself. In the middle, it makes a series of descriptions and reflections on the folk version of the Cultural Revolution disaster, the huge gap between economic transformation and cultural conservatism in the past two decades, the social status of official career and academic circles, especially the recurrence mechanism and communication mechanism of cultural disasters. When describing his life course, the author shows a spiritual choice in the transition period, despising disasters, constantly breaking through, exploring the world based on the earth, and also shows the fear and loneliness of difficulties brought by this spiritual choice.
When reading this book, I found that it is different from other successful autobiographies, with many ups and downs. When reading this book, it feels like sitting in front of the old man with a small stool in a small yard, listening to the old man share his life experience with the sunset, having a feeling of his own life experience and inculcating the younger generation, so peaceful and natural. No blood boiling, no emotional excitement, but slowly taste and think about all kinds of experiences. I like the story of old houses and cheongsam. The old house refers to the house where the author was born and lived until he was nearly ten years old. The book introduces that "the old house is located in a house called Highland in Chetou Village, Qiaotou Town, Cixi, Zhejiang. From my birth to my departure, Qiaotou Town belonged to Yuyao County. It seems that it was incorporated into Cixi in 1979. The old house is located in an authentic rural area. The only lively place is Qiaotou Town, a mile away, but it is a narrow street by the river, an ordinary stone bridge and several small shops. There is a market for buying and selling agricultural products every morning, and it will be finished in a few steps. " Cheongsam is about the author's mother's cheongsam. In the author's pen, it is a habit for mother to wear cheongsam, but it is somewhat abrupt with her life in the countryside. Later, because her mother often read letters to the villagers in the old house, everyone gradually got used to this dress. When I read this passage, such a warm scene began to emerge in my mind. Everyone in the village is sitting at home, with children, old people and women still holding live clothes, quietly listening to the women wearing cheongsam reading letters under the warm yellow light. At that time, the letter contained too many feelings, which were family thoughts, caring, and even just a kind of inexplicable peace of mind and love. As the author wrote, "Reading and writing letters means reading and writing about a village. Mom soon entered the center of the village. " Just like when I was a child, I listened to my parents telling their stories by the fire. In the story, I can feel their childhood life and walk into their parents' hearts.