Question 1: Notes for witnesses 1. The obligation of witness and how to choose witness. As the name implies, his or her duty is to witness the wedding ... at the wedding, he or she announces and proves the voluntariness and legality of the new marriage. Therefore, in a general wedding ceremony, his or her duties include the work of a priest in a western-style wedding. (to ensure the solemnity of the wedding ceremony) has the color of * * * which is common in Chinese weddings (to declare the legitimacy of the wedding), and he (she) has the characteristics of a priest and * * *. Generally speaking, as long as the dignity and legitimacy can be guaranteed, anyone among the guests can become a new witness as long as they meet this role. In addition, according to the characteristics of witnesses, the age and gender of witnesses are different. No special requirements. There are all kinds of witnesses to choose from. It can be the classmates, colleagues, friends, relatives, parents, colleagues and friends of the newlyweds, or the leaders of both units of the newlyweds. Second, the responsibilities of the host and how to choose the host vary from place to place, and the requirements are different (for example, the host in Tianjin is the parents of the newlyweds). Take Beijing as an example, the officiating person at the wedding. He (she) is an important representative of the guests. His (her) duty is to make a polite congratulatory speech to the newlyweds on behalf of all the guests. The host can choose his or her status to be higher, older and higher than that of the witness. Preferably one of the distinguished guests in the wedding crowd. 3. Speaking time of witnesses and moderators. Be sure to limit their speaking time. Because from the wedding experience, it takes a lot of time for all kinds of characters to speak. In a general wedding, there may be many people talking, such as the witness, the officiant, both parents, the newlyweds and so on. If one person speaks for 3 minutes at most (3 minutes should include the time to go on and off the stage), the above 5 people will speak for 15 minutes, accounting for one third of the wedding ceremony time. It will also affect the mood of newcomers and guests. Therefore, it is required that if the witness and the officiating party are established at the same time, the witness does not need to send a congratulatory message. Because he (she) will talk to the host, express the same meaning, and repeat the speech, which is meaningless. At this time, the witness's job is only to prove the voluntariness and legality of the marriage between husband and wife, that is, to read the marriage certificate or make a short testimony. Parents and newlyweds should also be as brief as possible. 4. Newcomers must set up witnesses and officiators according to their own specific conditions. When choosing a witness and officiating person, we must decide the candidate according to the actual situation of our wedding and the attendance of the guests. For example, the leaders of both units are present at the wedding of the newlyweds. The newlyweds want to introduce their leaders at the wedding and arrange for them to speak in public. Then they can be set as witnesses and hosts respectively. When determining the leadership arrangement, which leader has high qualifications and which leader is older, you can arrange which leader as the host. On the other hand, as the main ceremony, you should limit his/her speaking time after the main ceremony is confirmed, because if the main ceremony is good at talking and talks endlessly, it will delay the end of the wedding. After determining your own witness and officiating person, don't forget to tell them that when they arrive at the wedding scene on the wedding day, they should communicate with the officiating person in advance to find out how the officiating person arranges their speech sessions and when they will take the stage. Of course, if the couple themselves are leaders, they can arrange their classmates and friends as their own witnesses and officiating parties. If there are new people, only the relatives of both parties are invited to the wedding, and they don't want to invite colleagues, and they are not prepared to treat them alone. You can also arrange for your relatives to be the witness and host of the wedding. At present, many couples' weddings are attended by only the leaders of the husband and wife, or for various reasons, there can be only witnesses without officiating. Without a moderator, the duties of the moderator can be borne by the witness. That requires the witness to deliver a congratulatory speech on behalf of the guests before and after reading the wedding speech. In this way, all guests can congratulate each other.

Question 2: What is a witness? The general wedding process includes: a witness is excited and a host. The witness can be the bride's elder or company leader, and the officiating person can be the groom's elder or company leader. Nothing wrong with the witness is to prove that your marriage is legal and valid. Generally, the witness looks at the marriage certificate, but the marriage certificate contains some digital information of the bride and groom. Some newcomers don't want to let everyone know publicly, and what they see is too straightforward, so. We generally advise witnesses to tell some knowledge about the bride and groom and their wishes after marriage, and finally declare the marriage of the couple legal and valid. In fact, the main speech of the wedding ceremony is a blessing and entrustment to you after marriage. There are many versions of wedding ceremonies and wedding words on the Internet. You can have a look. Wedding companies can also provide speeches.

Question 3: What does the witness need to do when getting married? 1. Witnesses should wear formal clothes. If it is an ordinary or rural wedding, at least it should be decent and clean.

2, wear the witness's logo, after all, you have to go to the camera to record, and let people know what you do. Respect for newlyweds.

3. The MC will ask the witness to read the marriage words or the words on the marriage certificate at the node. You can make a short and relaxed opening speech, and then read it out loud, not too long, not too glamorous.

4, the rest is to find someone to chat, drink and eat vegetables.

Question 4: What are the criteria for being a witness? It is respected, enjoys a high reputation and looks solemn.

Question 5: The conditions of witnesses can be set according to your wishes.

Question 6: What is the difference between the officiating person and the witness? The officiating person is usually the parents or elders of the couple, mainly thanking the guests for their arrival on behalf of the family and the couple; The duties of the witness are held by celebrities, respected people or unit leaders, mainly to praise the new couple and prove the validity of their marriage! The role is different, and the focus of the words is different! If all the leaders of the long party want to speak, you can locate one of them and invite a party leader to speak on the stage!

Question 7: Don't you need to invite witnesses and emcees to the wedding? It depends on your opinion, and there is no ceremony. If you simply thank your friends for inviting you to dinner, you don't need to invite them. If there is a ceremony, you need to invite them. Generally, witnesses are more prestigious elders or unit leaders, and the host can ask friends for help. Or go to a wedding company to find one. If you are in Beijing, I can help you.

Question 8: What's the difference between the officiator and the witness when getting married? The host generally refers to the master of ceremonies and is responsible for the main affairs of the wedding.

Witness generally refers to your elders or leaders, and there are many priests in the west.

Question 9: Who is better for the witness? What should I pay attention to when choosing a witness? 1. Who is better for the witness?

Who do witnesses usually look for? Marriage is a matter for two families. Generally speaking, they are looking for senior, respected and older elders in their families, either their own relatives or their parents' friends. But now many young people's weddings are prepared by wedding companies, so in order to avoid gossiping and tedious things by some elders, we can directly let the wedding companies arrange suitable witnesses. But we must choose a trustworthy, expressive and well-received witness to give our wedding a good blessing.

Second, what matters should be paid attention to when choosing witnesses?

1, the selection of witnesses must be prepared in advance for a period of time to avoid the situation that witnesses cannot be present on the wedding day for some reason, so be prepared. This witness had better choose a person who is close to his family or the man's family, trust him more and feel more at ease.

2, in addition to the witness to find a period of time in advance, the same is true if you get married. Draw up and arrange wedding words in advance for the selected witness, so that he can spend more time getting familiar with them, and ensure that the embarrassing situation on the wedding day can be expressed smoothly without making jokes; There is also the need to control the time not to be too long, otherwise it will give people the feeling of nagging.

Although the witness is not the main role, it can be regarded as an important person after the bridesmaid and the best man. Therefore, witnesses should dress appropriately and generously. If conditions permit, the couple can prepare a set for the witness in advance.

Question 10: Can a witness have sex with a woman? Witnesses can be women.

There is no special requirement for gender.

Generally, they are elders, elders and people with high moral character.