Time: 20 13.5. 13

Some people say that men are not bad and women don't love them. This sentence is not unreasonable, but I have never been optimistic about such love, because the probability of bad men hurting women is too great, just like those sweet-talking bad men, as long as they open their mouths, women will lie in their arms as soft as if they were drugged.

And what kind of pain does a woman who loves such a bad man have?

Please read the story of this female netizen below.

Letters from readers:

I have a date. We have been together for three years. Our home is not in the same place. I once gave up my family and a lot for him. He is not good-looking, but he is very feminine. He has a good mouth and a set of rhetoric. Ordinary women are hard to resist. He is kind to every woman. He didn't like me at first, but I moved him bit by bit. He always likes to touch women. I also know that he went out with other women.

Later, I changed a lot and cared more about my feelings than before. At home now, the reason for going home is because I don't know him. As a child of a single-parent family, I always like to think about this problem. He betrayed me before, so I never trusted him.

I found out some time ago that he was in contact with one of his girlfriends. He has known that woman for eight years and had sex with her. They were together when we were together before. I forgave him. He never broke off contact with her. My partner told me everything he knew, saying that he and that woman were just ordinary friends. I thought ordinary friends would call and send messages more often than the two of us.

He said I miss him very much. He said I just wish I could change my personality and understand him better. I said he should choose between me and that woman. He said I was sick. If I have to say several times that we are ordinary friends, it is unnecessary. I feel very sad. I have endured so many betrayals more than once. I am not as good as an outsider. I feel that he likes that woman better than me. I have a deep affection for him. What should I do?

Our relationship now is to maintain, he never say goodbye. He said that he would never say goodbye to me as long as I was fine, but I can't stand him always contacting others. I want to break up. I think he loves me and treats me well. I am very happy with him every day. He will give me all the money in his pocket, leaving only 10 for a taxi, and everything else will be fine. I can't control this aspect of women, he said.

Answer:

People are ugly and have a sweet mouth, which is very popular with women. Obviously, your boyfriend is a playboy who is good at sweet talk, and you are the biggest prey. You said that you have done a lot for him, and you touched him, so he is willing to treat you as his girlfriend. This is the so-called hot pursuit.

However, you are very sad now. You find that the person you love not only loves you, but also has many women around him. This is the correct sentence. To choose the person you love is to choose the pain.

In my opinion, if a man loves a woman, he will never tell you. He holds you in his left hand and her in his right. Such a man is not qualified to say the word love. In his eyes, love is sex, and giving you sex is loving you. And you, it seems, are the kind of silly girl who will be happy from ear to ear as long as he is a little nicer to you. I don't know what self-esteem means. Loving such a man who thinks himself a lover.

You know what he said is nonsense, and you accepted it by deceiving yourself. I want to ask, why is this? Do you think that one day he will beat gongs and drums to marry you home? Besides, what if he marries you and goes home? He will be loyal to you and treat you only as a treasure?

Your weakness fueled his selfish desires. He knows you love him. He knows you can't live without him. He knows that if you say something nice to coax you, you will be fine. So he went out to find another woman to get a room to sleep with. He is not guilty at all, and he is not afraid at all. He can even wantonly flirt with other women in front of you. This is the man you love deeply. Beauty, why do you bother?

You're struggling, and you don't know if you should quit. In fact, it's not that you are entangled, but that you are willing to be hurt to death and can't live without this man. I'm so touched, that man wants such love, but the key is that you have to return it! If there is no return, do you think you are being a bitch?

Sorry, I was a little rude, but someone must wake you up.

Come on, I wish you happiness!