This is not to say that you are not excellent, but that your Excellence is not obvious and is still in the primary stage. So at this time, you need to strengthen this aspect, such as reading some extracurricular books, reading some psychology books, mastering other people's psychological dynamics, and getting twice the result with half the effort when chatting. Of course, the mastery I am talking about is not that kind of abnormal mastery, but only the most basic understanding of the senses. You can also try to socialize with others. Only in this way can you feel the fun of communication and find some convenient methods in the process of communication. Everything is like this. Practice makes perfect, even in conversation. As long as you chat with others more, you will naturally become a person who knows how to chat, and then your Excellence will be obvious.
Another situation is that you don't realize your Excellence. There are no friends around to tell you that you are excellent, because there are too few activities or social activities, and you don't have enough opportunities to let yourself know and others know about you. For example, if you take an active part in some clubs and student unions and do a lot of work in college, you will know what you are good at and what you need to improve.
And in this process, others can clearly see your state at work, which is also conducive to a comprehensive understanding of you. When others tell you that you are excellent in some way, you will notice yourself. So, sometimes you just lack Bole and ignore that you are a good horse. Once Bole appears, you will realize your ability and naturally gallop.
If you really don't have any outstanding aspects, or feel that you can improve yourself, then you can find another way to re-cultivate an excellent behavior. For example, you can read some extracurricular books with interest, in which you will admire the behavior or spirit of some protagonists, so that you will continue to imitate and learn, and you will know what you want. In short, there are more than 365 lines in the world, and there is always one for you. As long as you are good at observing life and taking life seriously, everything can make you an excellent self. ?
Don't face life with such an unconfident attitude. You should tell yourself that you are excellent. Even if there are defects in some places, there is still room for improvement. Everyone is different. Of course, you also have something extraordinary. You must be good at knowing yourself and observing yourself.