But before marriage, the man and the woman often have some contradictions and differences because of the bride price. But no matter which side makes concessions and compromises in the end, things will be solved when they are solved, and most people will not take it to heart.
Only a few people, narrow-minded, even with resentment and bitterness, are doing radical things and ending a happy event in a painful way. As a result, even if they hurt each other, their own side is not much better. Let's look at the following story, the story source: netizens contributed.
Mother-in-law announced the cancellation of the wedding on the spot. Groom: You can't cancel without entering the bridal chamber. The bride turned and left.
0 1. Wang Fang and David Shen are lovers. They have been in love for more than a year and have met each other's parents. After meeting no opposition, they decided to get married.
Wang Fang's parents have only one daughter, and she has been the darling of her parents since childhood. When Wang Fang got married, her parents naturally wouldn't treat her badly.
Wang Fang's parents want a bride price of150 thousand yuan. They originally planned to give her150,000,300,000 as a dowry after the bride price was received.
But David Shen's mother didn't agree. She thinks there is too much bride price and too little dowry. The two families had a big fight about it.
Finally, Wang Fang's father said: since you think the bride price is too much, give it to 100 thousand, and the dowry will be reduced to 200 thousand. If you think twice, you won't have to get married.
David Shen's mother didn't object to Wang Fang's father's proposal. Everyone thought it was over, but they didn't take it to heart and began to actively prepare for the wedding.
Unexpectedly, David Shen's mother took out100000 yuan for the bride price, so she held a grudge. She secretly vowed that even if she didn't want100,000 yuan, she would humiliate Wang Fang's family and let Wang Fang not get married in the future, which totally deserved it.
On the wedding day, when the wedding was about to begin, David Shen's mother suddenly got up, grabbed the microphone from the MC and said to all the guests, "I am the mother of the groom, and the bride Wang Fang is an insatiable and shameless woman. It is impossible for our family to marry such a woman. I announced the cancellation of the wedding and demanded that Wang Fang must return the bride price. "
All the guests who came to the wedding were surprised at what the groom's mother said, but they also whispered to each other. They all think that David Shen's mother's actions are too extreme. In order to win the so-called anger, she screwed up her son's beautiful marriage.
It took Shen Jian a long time to understand what his mother meant. In desperation, he grabbed the microphone and said anxiously, "We haven't entered the bridal chamber yet, so the wedding can't be cancelled."
David Shen said this in a hurry, giving the impression that he wanted to cancel the wedding after entering the bridal chamber.
Wang Fang thought so at that time. She looked at the mother and son and said, the wedding is off? Sure, who are you scaring? Who is afraid of growing up? As for returning the bride price, there is no way, because I can't fool around with you for nothing. After pulling my parents, I turned around and left. The free and easy look was even more dumbfounded: Can the original feelings be so affordable and let go?
Now, David Shen and Wang Fang are still entangled. One side wants a bride price, and the other side says it must be compensated. They could have been a couple, and it's a pity that they have come this far.
In this case, David Shen's mother is the root of the mistake. The bride price is a custom for thousands of years, and she can't overthrow it if she wants to. If your family can't accept the bride price, you can do this son's job, let him break up normally, and then find a woman who doesn't want the bride price.
I know my son David Shen likes Wang Fang, but I still do it. It seems that I am angry, but ask myself, what is this smell? Seeing that the married daughter-in-law has left and the bride price has not come back, does this turn a good thing into a bad thing? Besides, she is so old and extreme. It is estimated that it is difficult for her son to marry a daughter of a good family. Such disturbance and such reduction only hurt her own son.