I'm from Anxiang Chengguan. As far as I know, my cousin (my menstrual family is from Anxiang) got married and my cousin gave me 30 thousand yuan. My cousin got married, and my sister-in-law came from Anfeng Township and gave me 10,000 yuan. My own sister got married, my brother-in-law gave me 50 thousand, and later my mother quietly gave it to my sister.

This is more or less just a matter of scene, and parents generally don't want too much, because Anxiang people love face very much, mainly because they want to pay attention to themselves in front of relatives and friends, which shows that the man's attention is a symbol of economic strength. In fact, for them, their own happiness is the most important thing.