You'd better think carefully about such a woman who won't be considerate of men, and don't be short of money in the future!
If you can't make up your mind about such a question, let her help you choose! The house and you, you let her choose only one thing. If she only chooses the house, you'd better cut the gordian knot, and she will continue to suffer for it!
If she really loves you, she won't care too much! There will be bread, and there will be a house later! Judging from the current situation, what she values is only better living conditions, and you are not the most important thing in her mind! )
To say the least, don't just hang yourself from a tree! If she still doesn't want to, why don't you calm down and think about whether you are really suitable for each other? What will happen together in the future? What if something goes wrong?
Besides, even if you buy a house now, how much can you afford such expenses as bride price, banquet and wedding car?
You have experienced a failed marriage. Be mature and think about what kind of talents are suitable for you.
Find a lover in trouble, not a lover who only enjoys happiness!