It is often said that a happy childhood can cure a lifetime, and an unfortunate childhood may be difficult to cure for a lifetime. From this sentence, we can know that family background has a great influence on children. It is said that family is the first school for children, and the development of children's character has a great direct relationship with the influence of family. Children who grow up in a relaxed and harmonious atmosphere are relatively easy to achieve their own success in later life.
Recently, the reality show "Dear Little Desk" is being broadcasted. The program offers after-school care classes, which mainly invite stars to coach children and take care of them like teachers. Here, you can fully see the personalities of children in all families. At the same time, parents of children can sit together and share their parenting ideas, so as to achieve the effect of children's growth and progress and alleviate the anxiety caused by their parenting.
Because each parent's concept of parenting is different, a program can show how different the child's performance and personality are. Among them, Ye Yixi, as the representative of "Shunyi Mom", was praised by netizens for her "personal tailor" educational philosophy. The success of "personal tailor" education can be seen from the Mori disc. So how was Ye Yixi educated?
In the program, we found that Ye Yixi never forced the children to do anything, but sat at the desk with them and cultivated them in many ways according to Mori Yoshiro's active personality. Starting from cultivating children's interests, let children have a happy childhood. Under her educational philosophy, Sen became cheerful and generous. /kloc-at the age of 0/2, she mastered skateboarding, tennis and violin. Even in the face of the big star Leighton Hewitt, she is still confident.
Seeing this, we have to admire Ye Yixi's parenting concept, but also worry about the education of our children. In fact, we can gain a lot of valuable experience in educating children from Jackson Yee's "personal tailor" concept.
1. Develop a curriculum suitable for children.
In the face of children's different personalities, parents should also make different reactions. In Ye Yixi's successful child-rearing practice, we can see that Ye Yixi has formulated a series of courses that meet the requirements of Mori. Moridi is naturally active, not the kind of child who can study quietly at his desk all day. Ye Yixi arranged a series of outdoor sports for her, which can not only strengthen the child's physique, but also make fun as a plus item in future exams, so that the child can spend it in a happy childhood.
2. Care about children's self-esteem
Children also have self-esteem. Parents and children should not criticize their children at will in their daily family life, nor scold them in public, which will not only hurt their self-esteem, but also make them feel inferior gradually over time. Parents should give praise at an appropriate time and encourage their children to have good self-confidence.
3. Treat children equally
Today, with the liberalization of the second child policy, many families have already had two children. When parents get along with their two children, they should pay more attention to dealing with things between them. After the conflict between the two children, parents should not be partial to either side, but treat each child equally, so that the children can have a good growth environment and grow up healthily in a good family atmosphere.
Different family environments often cultivate children with different personalities. We dare not say absolutely which set of educational methods has absolute advantages and can be applied to all families. We can only choose a set of education methods that are most suitable for children. In addition, in the usual teaching of parents, we must pay attention to communication with children to ensure that children learn and grow in a relaxed family atmosphere.