It's wonderful to make an appointment with my classmates. We play together, play together, go to school together ... we talk to each other about our troubles, thinking that it will always be like that, but all this has not changed with the passage of time. You left a beautiful and happy scenery in my classmate's memory, friend, the word has appeared in my mind countless times. I think, do you still know me now? You were late together, punished by the teacher, and drank the same wine together. Now you and I are not together. Do you still remember me Maybe now we have a certain gap. You are no longer you, and I am no longer me. When we meet again, greeting is so strange, even so indifferent, that I feel that you don't know me anymore ... Recalling that we were under that oak tree, you made an agreement with me and said, "When we grow up, we will fulfill our dreams together." You look innocent and look at the blue sky with expectant eyes. I said, "Yes." I was so happy that suddenly you took out a wishing bottle and said, "Well, I heard that as long as you put your wish in, it will come true. Now I'll bury it here." I answered "yes" with a trusting face. I haven't forgotten it until now. It's been ten years since I came to this familiar place, but everything here has changed, yes! It has changed! It's not what it used to be. These paths became today's asphalt roads. I came to the appointed oak tree again and looked up at it. It's getting higher and bigger. Leaves rustle in the wind, and the sun shines on the ground through the cracks. I remembered whether the bottle you buried was still there, and then I looked at this strange and familiar city. I can't help crying at the thought of this. What about the innocent and lovely you? What about you? What about you, who has always said that you want to be friends with me? The wind chimes on the windowsill were touched by the breeze, and sadness rushed out of the window ... darkness enveloped me. I hope we can still smile together and be the kind of intimate friends who have nothing to say. We sat by the sea and started the sunset together. We sat side by side on the rooftop, chatting about childhood memories, facing the breeze and swinging our legs leisurely. This is an agreement between you and me. Friends talk about the sun turning into ice in their hearts. "I asked for something; I want to go to the toilet; My classmates told me something was wrong ... "When I was a child, I always used various excuses to escape my mother's orders. I remember that summer. The weather is sultry, even the cicada in the tree seems to say, "hot, hot!" " "I watch TV with an electric fan at leisure and I don't feel a trace of warmth." Mom is going to her aunt's house to do something for her, okay? "Mother's words broke the peace of the home. Thinking about the sun overhead outside, I had a brainwave and said to my mother, "I almost forgot that my classmates wanted to see me." Say that finish and ran out. I mean, wandering around. Although the sun scorched the earth, I was relaxing in the shade. Just when I was glad that I used an excuse to escape my mother's orders. Not far away, I saw my mother carrying two big bags of things and struggling forward step by step. Sweat on my forehead came out like raindrops and dripped on my cheeks. I am still panting. It's very hot outside, but my heart is extremely cold at this time. Although I avoided the bright light of the big sun outside, I didn't escape the light of the small sun in my heart. My mother's image was fixed in my heart. I quickly took the big bag in my mother's hand and wiped the sweat from her cheeks. Mother looked at me and smiled knowingly. Although excuses can make us escape from temporary hardship and fatigue, what we get is what we lose. Although we got temporary comfort and enjoyment, we lost our inner peace, leaving behind our inner condemnation and deep apologies. No matter how perfect the excuse is, it will never be found again, but it can't escape the condemnation of the soul. An excuse is like a hard piece of ice, so hard and impeccable, but the little sun of conscience in my heart will only turn into a piece of water. Avoiding excuses will never solve the problem and will never become a permanent shield. Let's be worthy of ourselves and others and put down our shields. From then on, in the face of my mother's orders, I no longer avoided and feared, because I knew that the sun in my heart would dispel those excuses. Incomplete is also a kind of beauty. I have a hoop and I accidentally lost a part of myself. Because I am incomplete, I enjoyed the beautiful scenery around me and made many friends. My life is full of happiness. Therefore, deformity is also a kind of beauty. Incomplete beauty is an artistic realm. The well-known statue of Venus, the goddess of love, has no arms and is a broken product. However, after observing and studying, many sculptors found that there was nothing they could do. Because no matter how you design it, you can't keep her original temperament after you put your arm on her. It is true that she is complete after wearing her arms, but she is not perfect. Just as we would rather raise a pot of dead flowers than decorate the bedroom with a pot of fake flowers, the deformity is so beautiful. Incompleteness gives a warning. As the crystallization of China's hard work and wisdom, Yuanmingyuan was looted and burned by the British and French allied forces, leaving behind ruins and holes. So someone proposed to repair it to carry forward the broadness of Chinese culture. What a bold idea, full of patriotism! But it was rejected, not because it wasted too much, but because it could make us remember the shame of the past, remember the past, be teachers in the future, and inspire Chinese people to fight for the rejuvenation of China. Incompleteness gave us such a big shock. Incompleteness makes us more beautiful. The meteor pierced the night sky, and I missed my wish; When the waves hit the rocks, I missed the blessing ... I missed too much, but when your ears kept listening and your eyes looked into the distance, you lost the beauty around you, just like a person only bowed his head and hurried forward, missing the gorgeous flowers and beautiful scenery along the way. Don't pursue perfection, learn to feel with your heart, and you will find that those who sang, shook hands, loved, and so-called once are all beautiful. Incompleteness is not inferiority, but another attitude towards life, which relaxes one's mind. Incomplete, make Venus endless, make Yuanmingyuan unforgettable, and make our life better. Taste life, taste incomplete, you will find: incomplete is so beautiful! Means by chance? Inevitably!
The world was shocked when the 28-year-old Euler perfectly proved the conclusions reached by several mathematicians in just two days. But when he was young, he was calm, and he already knew that this was the inevitable result: he knew the efforts he had made for it. When it took steinmetz only three days to restart a machine that several engineers couldn't repair for months, the whole factory looked at him with new eyes. He said calmly: "All this stems from my accumulation for decades." Yes, some people seem to succeed only because of luck, but behind that unexpected achievement, there is how much effort. So, everything makes sense again. Isn't it Sima Qian? When he was punished by corruption, everyone thought he would sink. But he gritted his teeth; Swear to release the wonderful life with words. He melted the deepest feelings into a flowing chapter, and interpreted the eternal swan song of historians with blood and tears. It is really surprising that people who have suffered so much have achieved so much, but it is natural that such a proud person can finally shine in the long river of history! When the rulers of the Qing Dynasty proudly watched Lin Zexu, who had resisted Britain, be demoted to Yili, the heroic old man unexpectedly led Ili to fly to Daiyue, where he was dusty and dug a canal to divert water to Xuefeng. When he was wandering at the bottom of his life, he did not forget to benefit the local people! And all this, isn't it from his sincere patriotic feelings and love for the people? In this way, in people's consternation, Lin Zexu did what he thought was the most important thing to do. His deeds will be immortal! And not just personal? The same is true of the actions of a nation or even a country! In 1970s, President Nixon visited China, which was a pioneering work that shocked the world. But isn't it because China has become stronger? At the Asian-African Conference, the representative of China kept calm, turned the tide, and made great contributions to promoting world peace and development. When the representatives of other countries gave thumbs up in surprise, how could they not admit that this was China? The real strength of this country that is accelerating its running! How surprised people will be when a seed germinates on a cliff and mussels reveal dazzling pearls! However, in the face of its constant struggle day and night, and the pain of being honed by the wind and sand every day, it is so natural. It turns out that unexpected success is often common sense.
Looking for happiness, my name is honesty. I have six brothers, namely, health, beauty, alertness, knowledge, money and honor. I suffer from them every day. My mother's name is vanity, and she often says I'm worthless. /kloc-When I was 0/8 years old, I left home and rode a donkey named Hope to find happiness.
On this day, I came to a city called Fake. People are all smiles. I thought I found happiness, so I stayed in a hotel happily. The boss is very warm to me and let me live in the best room. When I told him that I had nothing, the sky was overcast and he kicked me out. People looked at me in disgust. Just when I was at a loss, two girls saved me, one was sympathy.
Another day, I came to the city called Deception, where swindlers were wandering everywhere. I didn't know what to do, so they came up and hit me. I was in a coma. A passerby named Luck saved me and took me back to a temple where an old man with white hair sat. He asked me to go home with him. I also told him that I didn't want to pursue happiness, so I went home. But he smiled and took me home. I stood alone on the other side. However, it miraculously tilted towards me. Just when my brothers were surprised, I understood something. When the old man left, he said his name was fate.
How to make others not run away from problems? How to encourage others? Everyone has setbacks, but don't doubt your ability because of temporary setbacks, and then form a kind of pressure.
Keep a clear head when encountering setbacks, face the reality, face it bravely and don't run away.
Give him confidence,
When encountering difficulties, please remember one sentence-there is no eternal difficulty, and there is no difficulty that cannot be solved, just the length of time.
Compared with life, difficulty is just a pigment, a pigment that adds color to life.
When you are in trouble, don't run away from the problem, and don't drown your sorrows in wine. There is a saying: "If you drown your worries with wine, you will add to your worries!" As long as you have confidence in yourself, nothing is difficult.
Then how can we improve our self-confidence? First of all, we should overcome inferiority complex, build up self-confidence, and say "I can do it, I can do it" in our hearts every day. Others can do it, so can I! Everyone is a human being, with a head and hands, and similar intelligence. You can do anything if you work hard and use the right methods.
Believe in yourself, I will be able to do it;
Others say I can do it, and I can only do it if I work hard;
If you can't do it today, try it tomorrow;
I can face it squarely, but I can do it;
Not only do it yourself, but also help others;
Support each other and cooperate with everyone;
Strive for the comprehensive line, the college entrance examination can.
Secondly, you can keep a sweet smile every day. People who have no self-confidence often have dull eyes and pull a long face, while ambitious people always have bright eyes and bright smiles. People's facial expressions are consistent with people's inner experiences. Laughter is a sign of happiness. Laughter can make people have confidence and strength; Laughter can make people feel comfortable and refreshed; Laughter can make people forget troubles and get rid of them. Learn to laugh, learn to smile, learn to laugh when you are frustrated, and you will improve your self-confidence.
Finally, we must hold our heads high and learn to actively associate with others. People who are frustrated by setbacks often hang their heads, which is a sign of failure, lack of strength and loss of confidence. Successful people, proud people, successful people, always hold their heads high and high-spirited. Holding one's head high is a sign of strength and confidence.
A positive self-image and a healthy attitude towards life can enhance your immunity to stress diseases. Self-doubt and loss of confidence in one's abilities are common. Anyone, no matter how confident he is, will inevitably lack self-confidence when facing challenges. This is usually a defensive response to stress. Long-term loss of self-confidence will affect the understanding of one's own abilities, and stress will arise. Accompanied by emotional, psychological or physical problems. Many mental health experts believe that psychological barriers such as anxiety and depression are caused by the contradiction between self-image and other people's views on your purpose.
Therefore, if you can't overcome anxiety or depression, you should seek the help of experts. The primary goal of treatment is to change your self-awareness. Once you find your self-worth, the stress will be relieved and the symptoms will disappear. When you look in the mirror, are you carefree or anxious? A positive self-image is a sign of confidence. If you think hard, you will find positive aspects in life.
When you encounter a problem, how do you think of a solution? Remember, let go when it is time to let go. A blessing in disguise is a blessing in disguise!
When problems arise, we should try to solve them, not bow our heads, right? Hello, dear Baidu knows the user's landlord and is willing to answer your questions.
Of course it is! Is the solution always more difficult than the reality? Let me give you a compliment first (≧▽≦)! You are lucky to have such an optimistic and positive attitude for your troubles! It means that your mind has gradually matured when you encounter problems? If you choose to escape the responsibility of reality, it can only prove that you are a weak person? Things haven't been solved yet. Will it still be by your side anytime and anywhere? Would you like to be that person? Why don't you try to solve this problem? Break through the obstacles and break through the difficulties of this problem?
In fact, you didn't beat others, nor was it the problem itself, but you challenged yourself. You beat the problem? At the same time, you also overcame your inner entanglement? The biggest weakness of human nature is that we can't face ourselves squarely and overcome ourselves. When you try to solve problems through your own efforts, your energy will further improve yourself, your cognition will improve a lot, your heart will gradually become stronger, and you will feel happy and full? ! Isn't it?
() When Zhang Hua encounters any problems, () he will try to solve them (no matter what problems Zhang Hua encounters), () he will try to solve them.
Self-taught, this is a problem that many people encounter. There is no diploma in a single subject, but only a certificate.
Besides English II, how many courses have you taken?
If you have a junior college diploma, you can go to a junior college to join an undergraduate course, which will be easy to pass, just saying that you need to pay tuition for one year.
You can definitely find a job without a diploma, but the quality and treatment of your work will definitely be greatly reduced.
Many diseases of modern people did not exist in ancient times, did they? Not necessarily. But at that time, the traffic was blocked, the population was relatively sparse and the population density was low, so those epidemics did not spread.
Why are modern people too vague and use too many useless words? But it doesn't solve the problem. The complaints and powerlessness caused by the current social pressure are too great, and I always want to vent.
Problems and Solutions Problems Encountered by Celebrities During the Ming Dynasty, Dong, a native of Jiyang, Shandong Province, was an official in Beijing. One day, he received a letter from home saying that he had a quarrel with his neighbor when building a house for the foundation, hoping that he could use his power to solve the matter. Dong wrote a letter immediately after reading it, saying, "I can't help laughing my heart out;" What's wrong with giving up your feet? " After reading it, the family felt that Dong had a point. When building the house, they voluntarily gave up a few feet. When the neighbors saw Tengku, they also learned something and followed suit. As a result, the two * * * gave up eight feet wide, and after the house was built, there was an alley, which the world called "Renyi Hutong". Lin Xiangru was named Shangqing, ranking above Lian Po, because of his feat of "returning to Zhao in perfect condition". Lian Po defy spirit, threatened to humiliate Lin Xiangru face to face. Lin Xiangru, after learning, tried to avoid and tolerate, so as to avoid conflict with Lian Po. Li Gong in Lin Xiangru thought he was afraid of Lian Po, and Lin Xiangru said, "Qin did not dare to invade my Zhao because of me and General Lian. I tolerate and yield to General Lian and put the country in danger. " When Lian Po heard this, there was the story of Lian Po's "offer a humble apology".
The way the ancients fled was to become monks. What is the way for modern people to escape? According to different people, events and circumstances, there are too many ways to choose, which is hard to say. The opinions of the upper level may not be suitable for you, and the final choice depends on yourself. I can offer you a way: turn off your mobile phone, cut off all external contacts, find a place where no one knows you, live in seclusion, recite Tang poems and practice calligraphy every day. The question is, can you do it?