A mother can wear red shoes at her daughter's engagement party, but it's better not to wear pure red shoes. In fact, there is nothing too taboo, mainly because the engagement party is not a dance or a social party. An engagement party is a formal meeting between parents for their children. Most of the guests are relatives and friends except their parents. At this time, the woman's mother had better dress dignified and decent, not too "bright" to show her parents' education and moral. In addition, it is also suspected of stealing dramas. (Because girls don't dress up too mature when they are engaged, they usually appear as little girls, which is beautiful and elegant)