After the trip, he left contact information with each other, and he began to chat with me frequently, and then he confessed to me. Our two families are in different cities in the same province, separated by more than three hours' drive. I didn't promise him, after all, I only met him a few times. He quit his job to chase me and come to stay with me.
In this way, he accompanied me for half a year, and finally moved me, and I was with him. My boyfriend is two years younger than me, but he looks mature and steady when he is with me, and he is always patient with me. He found a new job here with a low income, but he is willing to spend money for me. We get along very well.
Speaking of marriage, there are actually many difficulties. The first thing to be solved is the wedding room. Boyfriend's family conditions are average, and his family's property is their self-built house in the countryside. His hometown is very backward, and I can't keep up with him, so this wedding room can only be bought by my family.
Actually, my family conditions are quite good. I am an only child, my father is doing business with others, and my mother is a doctor in the local people's hospital. My parents have spoiled me since I was a child. For my marriage, my parents have only one requirement, that is, they are not allowed to marry far away. My parents acted resolutely and quickly and bought the house soon.
Just when my boyfriend's parents came to discuss the wedding with our family, we broke up. My parents only have one daughter, so naturally they want my wedding to be grand, but my boyfriend's family doesn't think so. The advice given by my boyfriend and mother is to get a license first, have another child, and wait until the child is full moon, and the full moon wine will be held together with the wedding. I'm confused when I hear it. What logic is this?
My parents and I looked at each other, but my boyfriend's parents insisted on having children, and finally the two families broke up in discord. My parents and I strongly disagree with my boyfriend's proposal. I broke up with my boyfriend when I came back. Boyfriend doesn't agree. He said angrily, I have paid so much for you and come all the way to your side. You can't even agree to this request?
I am speechless, and my boyfriend also said that their hometown has always been like this, and we can't break the rules. I have an impulse to scold my mother. Fuck you. What's the rule? I really can't agree. Let's break up without discussion. Then I hacked all his contact information and ignored him.
My ex-boyfriend and I are both from Shandong, and his family lives in a remote village. I just want to ask the majority of male compatriots in Shandong, get married first, have children, and finally have a wedding. Do you have such a rule there?