1, this person is out.

Because there is a concept in our country that when a man marries a wife, he has to pay for the wedding, so a large number of families will acquiesce that the man will pay for the banquet. Although it has changed a little, there is still such a saying.

2. Both parties share the burden.

Many newlyweds may think that the cost of banquet money is not a small expense, so they should think it is fair to both parties, so as to avoid contradictions and irreconcilable in the wedding process.

3. The economic situation is good.

Some places or families think that the other party or their own economic situation is better and can pay a large part of the banquet money, which will also make the other party's burden smaller and avoid embarrassing scenes for both parties.

Second, who will pay for the wedding banquet?

1. If you ask who will come to the wedding banquet, there is actually no uniform standard, just look at how the two families negotiate. For example, you can choose half male and half female.

2. It depends. If the woman treats you, the money can be collected by the woman's family. If the man's family treats you, the expenses should be paid by the man. It is best to do a good job of non-interference so as not to get into trouble.

It depends on the region. I come from Nanchong, Sichuan. Therefore, when getting married, the man should prepare the house and furniture and jointly bear the banquet money of the woman's family.

4. For the distribution of banquet money, it is best for both parties to negotiate well, as long as it does not hurt everyone's harmony.

When my boyfriend and I were getting married, we never talked about it. When we were ready to order a banquet, his family offered to pay half of the banquet money. It was quite unpleasant in the end. Therefore, it is best to discuss in advance who will pay for the banquet, so as to avoid subsequent troubles.

6. My husband's family's economic conditions are not very good, so when we got married, the family came up with the banquet money, but my father-in-law said that if Lao Zhang married his wife, he would have to pay for the banquet money, and finally he gave us the money.