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Why falling in love is not equal to getting married?
There is a red bomb every year. My best friend Moses says she is seriously injured every year.

However, this year, she finally got rid of the single aristocrat and took her boyfriend David to a friend's wedding, finally cheating me.

At three o'clock in the morning, Moxi suddenly called me.

She said that on the way back, David said to her, "Why don't we get married?"

She was surprised.

Because David was once a man who made do with love.

The beginning of Venus and Moses, for them, was an accident.

I know Dawei because Moxi wants to learn drum set on a whim.

Two people have been dating for two years, and the topic of conversation is nothing more than how to beat this beat and how to knock that strength.

Until a year ago, David was lovelorn and chatted with Moxi.

David said that although she is not my favorite woman in my emotional experience, women are all like that. She likes the cold war unreasonably, so just bear it. I don't want to change anymore.

People who are lovelorn lose their pupils and are as cold as zombies.

In fact, they used to be people who yearned for love, but their hearts were broken, they didn't heal themselves, and they didn't meet warm people.

My heart stopped beating.

Moses also knew something about Venus and his ex-girlfriend.

"She is unreasonable and likes the cold war. You don't really accept this way, but let it hurt your feelings and deal with your problems. At the end of the day, you feel exhausted. Of course, you broke up. "

David sighed.

"What's the use of this? My ex-girlfriend is my favorite woman in my life, but I still separated. For this one, I lowered the standard and thought I could make do, but I still separated. "

David's wild and long-term practice on emotional issues aroused Mo Xi's injustice.

She was a little excited: "Just because you didn't say what you were thinking doesn't mean she can't feel it. She also felt what you would do to her. Your letting go is also an expression of dissatisfaction with her.

The subtext is like: make trouble if you like. what can I do? She also felt your deep resentment.

There is something wrong with her expression, but the deeper meaning is that she wants you to pay more attention to her and care about her. She is also an insecure person. "

In this way, the two men chatted about their emotional experiences one by one.

I know that Moxi has been single for many years, not because she can't meet the person she likes, but because she thinks that love can't start or end casually.

When dealing with a relationship, she is always observing and considering whether she and the other person are suitable.

Moses said, "I once fell in love with the wrong person like a moth, and finally broke up without warning in the early morning of my birthday."

During that time, she will definitely take a big bag of tissues when she goes out.

Walking on the road, tears will suddenly stop;

While eating, tears suddenly flow into the bowl;

Wearing a mask, you can't tell which is the essence of the mask and which is your own tears.

"I don't want a relationship to be inappropriate at the beginning, but finally forced to separate. Like you, I'm afraid of the feeling of heartache again.

However, sadness is a necessary process before reaching the light.

Darkness makes you strong, and you have enough strength to go to the end of light.

I believe that when I meet you, even if I get hurt again, I still need to be brave. I believe I will meet beautiful love, and I believe there is warmth. "

David looked at Moxi, who was talking seriously, and felt that her eyes were like a flower to be put, and the whole person was full of light and temperature.

Moses' attitude towards love melted the ice in his heart.

Venus has a crush on Moses, and she makes you nervous. Venus, who is usually laughing and laughing, is sometimes speechless.

Later, David decided to write a song to express his feelings, which gave him hope for love again. Only they understood the meaning in the lyrics.

Venus summoned up the courage to confess again. Moses was infected by Venus. He bravely took a step and promised Venus.

Sometimes, your energy comes out and will come back one day. Just like the energy Moses gave Venus at the beginning, Venus regained her courage, and this courage also infected Moses.

I asked Moses, and then what? What happened after Venus told her that sentence?

Moses said that she asked Venus why she wanted to marry her.

David replied: "since we accompanied them to choose a wedding dress, we are very grateful to see that they finally got married today and can enter another stage of their lives with the person they like."

Seeing this process also touched my desire to get married.

It is very comfortable to meet you and be with you. You respect me very much, and I really hope to take care of you all the time. "

Mo Xi pursed her lips and said, "Hum, so you hate marrying others."

Venus smiled and went on to say:

"I remember one time, you cried because your work was out of control. You really want to see me right away, and I want to be with you right away, but I can't get away from dinner because I promised to meet my brother.

Instead of blaming me, you told me that it was a rare party. Let's catch up with them. Although you really want me to accompany you, you think I can keep my life after you leave with me, so that I can go to the party with confidence and you can take care of yourself.

It makes me want to protect you more by your side. "

Many things happen in the same form, but different people's handling methods make things have different results.

"On the night of the party, the brothers and their girlfriends started calling to urge them to go home, but you didn't. You trust me and respect me.

Friends around you think you are not a normal person. How can you trust me so much? Don't do anything or make trouble.

Since I want to be with you, I have also started to lose weight, quit smoking, get up early for work and change my impatience. They all thought I was a different person, and joked that what ecstasy you gave me changed me completely. "

Venus reached out and touched Moses' head.

Mo Xi's eyes began to get serious: "We sometimes quarrel, aren't you afraid of the past?"

David said, "I was scared at first, but your attitude gave me confidence." When we have a conflict, you are very angry, but you will not disappear without saying a word and turn off your mobile phone. "

Even if you are too angry to say anything, you will tell me that you are too angry to say anything now. Let's talk about it later. You want to be alone, call me when you are quiet. "

Contradiction is the tester of a relationship, and almost no long-term partner has not experienced a very low tide, or it is difficult to go on.

Marriage is the sublimation of feelings, not everyone has me.

Forcing a boy to get married without considering whether his emotional foundation is solid will make him like sand. The tighter you hold it, the faster it will flow away.

What really makes people want to get married is your attitude towards love, the management of the relationship, the respect and trust for each other, and let him see the hope of going with you.

I think that's why Venus proposed to Moses.