The custom that the woman's parents can't attend the man's wedding has a long history. The wedding is held at the man's house, and the woman's parents can't attend. They can only be relatives and friends who see their relatives off. After the woman's family sent her daughter away, both parents hosted a banquet in their own homes to entertain the guests. It is said that because the parents of both sides are afraid that there may be discord because of the wedding, which will leave hidden dangers affecting the feelings of the two families, so the man and the woman hold their own weddings.