First, things that need to be prepared before marriage
1, wedding ring
Generally, the rings worn by newlyweds are also bought by men, and they are usually rings. The size, style and brand of the ring can be decided according to the preferences and budget of the newlyweds.
2. Gold and silver jewelry
The married man needs to prepare some gold and silver jewelry for the woman in advance, which generally includes: gold rings, gold earrings, gold necklaces, gold bracelets and so on.
3. Wedding room
Generally, the man buys the wedding room in full or pays the down payment, and the layout and furniture of the wedding room are generally paid by the man. Of course, this is a common situation in China, and there are also cases where couples and their families get together.
4. Wedding photos
Before marriage, couples usually take a set of wedding photos, and the cost of wedding photos is mostly paid by the man.
5. Red envelopes
The groom's wedding red envelope usually needs to be prepared first, otherwise it will be "blocked" by the bridesmaid.
6. Wedding dress
Newcomers can choose to buy their wedding dresses directly online or in specialty stores, or rent them, and the rental price will be more cost-effective.
7. Wedding car
The wedding car is a means of transportation for the couple. Generally, private cars are not used, but the way of leasing is chosen.
8. Wedding companies
The wedding is more complicated, so it is recommended to give it to the wedding company, so that the couple will be much more relaxed.
9. Wedding reception
The price of the wedding banquet is related to many factors, including the consumption level of the city, the grade of the hotel, the menu of the wedding banquet, drinks, candy and so on.
10, other wedding supplies
There are also some odds and ends, such as invitations, wedding couplets, the word "hi" on the wall, wedding cakes and so on.
Second, matters needing attention in premarital preparation
1, definite wedding date
It is necessary to find a good day to get married. Even if you don't check the date like those people used to, you should choose a lucky and memorable day. In addition, when choosing a wedding date, don't decide for yourself. You should consult each other and their parents and relatives, determine the wedding date, and then make a series of preparations for marriage according to the wedding date.
Step 2 decide the wedding mode
Weddings are generally divided into Chinese weddings and western weddings. Chinese wedding is more festive and belongs to our traditional wedding custom. Generally, elders like this wedding mode, while young men and women prefer western-style weddings, which feel fashionable, trendy and foreign, and white wedding dresses also feel very pure. Then two people need to communicate more in the preparation of wedding forms.
3. Discuss the bride price.
No matter where you are, the bride price is essential. Of course, the author rushed forward with his eyes closed for the so-called love, and did not care about the bride price. Almost all "normal" marriages must be discussed and presented before marriage. Many married men and women will fight for the bride price, so this is particularly important. As long as you decide to get married, discuss the bride price first.
4. Emotional adjustment
There are too many things to do before marriage, and bits and pieces will never be ready. Leave some things that need family help to your family. No matter what you do, the most important thing is to adjust your mentality.