The process before and after marriage
Wedding process 12 months ago, discuss with both parents in advance whether to hold an engagement ceremony, determine the date and place of the engagement ceremony, buy gifts and engagement rings for each other when engaged, invite relatives of both parties to attend the engagement ceremony, and hold the engagement ceremony 1 1 month ago-9 months ago, both parents met to discuss relevant details, calculate the date of birth of the couple and decide the wedding date. The number of people invited to the wedding budget and plan. Decide the form and place of the wedding. Start collecting information about the wedding venue. Visit all the places where you choose or plan to hold your wedding. Make a comparison table, book banquet venues and seats, study and discuss the renovation or residence of new houses, start to decorate new houses 8 months to 6 months ago, register or book churches, start to pay attention to the bride's wedding dress style and wedding photography related information, discuss honeymoon travel related information collection, wedding company information collection, make an appointment for pre-marital health examination and consultation, and confirm the wedding plan with the selected wedding company. 5 months ago -4 months ago, choose furniture, household appliances and other necessities in advance. Check the renovation progress of the new house. Discuss the time of moving and related matters. Take wedding photos. Start choosing the right wedding dress. If you want to customize the wedding dress, you must start to communicate with the designer and measure it for the first time. Like renting a wedding dress. It is necessary to select the dresses (not less than 3 sets) that have been scheduled, selected and customized for the wedding ceremony in advance, book the return gifts, discuss with the families of both parties to confirm the process of the wedding ceremony and the arrangement of the wedding banquet, and finally confirm the ceremony time with the contact person at the wedding venue, choose the honeymoon place and itinerary (if you want to go abroad, start to apply for a passport), and ask for wedding leave from the company three months ago and choose the master of ceremonies (generally provided by the wedding venue). Discuss the decoration scheme of the wedding ceremony with the contact person of the wedding venue, determine the list of invited guests, draw up the contents of the wedding invitation, purchase or customize the wedding invitation, determine the list of guests who will speak at the ceremony site and notify the parties in advance and the relatives and friends in other places. I didn't arrange transportation and accommodation for their arrival. I decided on the best man and bridesmaid, the brothers and sisters group and flower girl flower girl. I chose and determined the place where the bride and groom do their hair, makeup and beauty. I order or buy dresses for the best man, bridesmaids, flower girl flower girl and their parents. I bought a wedding ring and other jewelry. Two months ago, I held the first wedding preparatory committee meeting to fully communicate the wedding matters. I made an appointment with a makeup artist, a hairdresser and a photographer on the wedding day. Try on makeup, hair, prepare dowry and buy brand-new clothes (underwear, coat, leather shoes, etc. ), arrange banquet tasting, determine the dishes needed for the wedding banquet, reserve the wedding cake and drinks, decide on the gift car and photographers, cameramen and other related personnel (this step can be omitted if the wedding company is entrusted), and choose a suitable flower shop to order flowers, headdresses, lapels, venue flowers and wedding cars. The bride who moved into the new house began to take care of her skin 1 month ago sent invitations to the second wedding preparatory committee meeting, confirmed all the members and their responsible projects in detail, worked out the wedding workflow table, the contact list of the person in charge of the work, the wedding items and the list of the person in charge, tried on the dress for the second time, prepared appropriate underwear and shoes, wrote the wedding speech, communicated the details of the wedding ceremony with the master of ceremonies, and purchased wedding etiquette supplies. Such as guest list, gift seal, etc. Determine the number of guests according to the number of replies received from the invitation letter, draw up the guest list, estimate the number of attendees, arrange the number of tables or seats for the guests present, confirm the number of tables for the wedding banquet according to the number of people on the invitation letter, and confirm the number of drinks, drinks and cigarettes. Two weeks ago, the last meeting of the wedding planning Committee reconfirmed the work arrangement of the wedding. Determine the staff, drivers, recipients, waiters, etc. Determine the number of guests and arrange the table by phone. Buy candy or cake. The final flow of the confirmation ceremony. Confirm the style and quantity of wedding dress (purchase or production). Prepare the bride and groom's thank-you speech. Understand the etiquette that should be discussed in the wedding. 1 Buy sundries needed for the wedding banquet before the week, such as candy, melon seeds, tobacco and alcohol. Banquet dishes, budget and arrange the funds for each wedding banquet, prepare red envelopes and all stationery at the banquet venue, and post happy words at home. Buy firecrackers, the man buys gifts for employment, and the woman buys gifts in return, confirming the work flow and content of the day to relatives, friends and staff. If you go to church, you need to prepare a marriage certificate, start the honeymoon package, do the final full-body beauty and hairdressing care, and finally confirm the wedding leave time and their respective work units of the couple and arrange the handover work 1 day ago. Take the wedding dress and confirm the matching order of clothes and jewelry. Locate and collect the flowers you need, check all the wedding process forms, make sure the items are complete, claim the gift money and red envelopes to be used tomorrow, prepare food for the sisters, go to bed early, cheer up, drink less water and get married tomorrow! At the end of the day, check whether the bride and groom have all the things they want to bring to the scene, prepare a sum of money to cope with the cost overruns, settle the expenses of the wedding venue, count the total amount of gifts received, write down the names of donors and their respective amounts of gifts, call relatives and friends who can't be present to inform them of your good news of marriage, print wedding photos and mail them to relatives in other places.