Dude, the wife I'm looking for is a Potter. Never mind so many rules. There are too many rules over there. If you do it all, you will be miserable. You can discuss it with her, neutralize it and make it acceptable to both sides. They asked for 33,000 yuan, and I only gave it to 10 1, basically according to the rules of the man.
When you are engaged, it is also recommended to use your own rules more, but only if you say yes to the woman in advance and get her consent, and say more nice words, she will understand you.