It's not just men who pay for change. The change fee is given to the girlfriend at the engagement ceremony and is part of the engagement. The significance of changing the fee is that on the one hand, it means signing an engagement, on the other hand, it means confirming the marriage relationship. In our traditional customs, renaming is very important. For the first time, women express their surnames, respect, hobbies and so on. When she arrives at her husband's home, give it to her relatives and friends. The "fee for changing one's mouth" is a kind of recognition of the man's parents to his daughter, a respect for the girl and a traditional habit. Therefore, on the one hand, it depends on your own economic situation, on the other hand, you don't have to care too much. There are different names for the "change fee" in different places, some are called "opening fee", some are called "meeting ceremony", some are called "sedan chair money", some are called "face opening money", some are called "change fee" and some are called "engagement money".